It's been 3 days since he blocked me on everything. He ignored my text regarding our daughter. I had to ask his dad to get in touch to ask him if he was going to stay in our child's life. All I know is "he will contact you."
I would say "it feels like I do everything" He would always reply "actually you only do about 60%"
3 days and the disruption to my life has been miniscule. I've continued to do everything. All the cooking, the cleaning, the childcare. The only extra work I have is the weekly shop alone, and remembering to take the rubbish out on bin day.
If anything, my life is easier. I don't have to clean up after him. I don't have to wash his clothes, or take him a coffee in bed and make sure he wakes up to spend an hour a day with our kid before he went to work. I really expected to notice his absence more.
Financially, I might struggle a bit. Not much, but I'll have to be more frugal. The happiness I've gained from him leaving far out weights any struggle.