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Am I wrong for being upset at my boyfriend for waiting to bring me plan b?

My boyfriend and I had sex last night and the condom slipped off while he was pulling out. He said that the condom had only slipped off after he fully pulled out and that nothing escaped, and we could see that there was cum in it.

I obviously still get really paranoid about this type of stuff so I tell him that I wanna get plan b anyway. He agrees.

He was actually supposed to bring me to work the next morning, so we plan to stop and get plan b then. Turns out the store is closed, so he says he’ll buy some and bring it to me when I’m at work. All good sounds good to me.

Now I’m 7 hours into my shift and he tells me he’s on his way. I look at my phone and can see that he’s been playing league for the past 6 hours while I was at work.

This honestly upsets me because it really just seems like he doesn’t care about getting me the plan b. I didn’t expect him to bring it to me right away, but he clearly didn’t have any sense of urgency and felt fine playing video games while I was waiting for him.

In reality I know it’s very unlikely that I would get pregnant from this instance as my period is coming up, and I know he would have told me if something really went wrong with the condom. This is also all within 24 hours of having sex so the plan b effectiveness isn’t a huge deal. But I told him that this is something I get really anxious about and I just wanna take plan b to be extra safe, so him playing video games for hours while I wait just seems like he doesn’t care or take my concerns seriously.

Am I right for being upset or am I being dramatic?