• Are you still single?

• When can we meet your new parter?

• When are you getting married?

• When are you having kids?

• When is baby number X?

• Why no baby number X?

• Are you trying to get pregnant?

• Do you have a fertility issue? Thought about IVF?

• Are you still at xyz job?

• Are you still studying?

• Are you still living in a share house/at home?

• Have you thought about buying a house?

• Is your business lucrative yet?

• When is retirement?

• Are you missing your deceased loved one? Edit: it was brought to my attention that this is probably a good one to bring up: I think just be mindful

• When is your child getting married, having kids etc?

• Do you still have difficulty with substance x abuse?

• Is the crippling weight of being alive making you contemplate the kindness of death?

Edit: add on from r/cynicalstoop avoid general comments about people’s appearance even if it’s a compliment, including but not limited to;

• Have you gained/lost weight?

• Are you tired?

• Are you pregnant?

• Are you sick?

Just keep it light over the holidays y’all. If someone wants to talk about their life milestones, they will. Just be gentle with each other pls, it’s a hard time for some.