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- A bite-sized look at the ups and downs of the week ahead.
- Sometimes the unconventional path is the best one. Read our queer Sagittarius Season horoscope.
- A bite-sized look at the ups and downs of the week ahead.
- We spoke to trans experts about the best way to build your bulge.
- Queer sexperts answer your most commonly asked questions about squirting.
- A bite-sized look at the ups and downs of the week ahead.
- From situationships to friend crushes to that one club cutie you met last week, we got you covered.
- Give the gift of pleasure.
- Queer sexperts answer your most commonly asked questions about scissoring.
- After the Halloween parties, we’re getting stuff done. Read on for our queer Scorpio Season horoscope.
- A bite-sized look at the ups and downs of the week ahead.
- A bite-sized look at the ups and downs of the week ahead.
- Twink discourse exploded over Troye Sivan’s “Rush” music video. We’re here to break it down.
- A bite-sized look at the ups and downs of the week ahead.
- Read on for everything you need to know about the history of the term, its definition, and how to tell if you might be bigender.
- Strap in and read on for expert advice on how to have great strap-on sex.
- Grab a latte and reminisce. Read on for our queer Libra Season horoscope.
- Them spoke to bi+ people about their personal experiences and how the term “bisexual” has evolved over the decades.
- Amid an onslaught of anti-LGBTQ+ legislation, these student organizations are more than just safe spaces.
- A bite-sized look at the ups and downs of the week ahead.
- If you need to really get to know someone before you can fall for them, you might just be demiromantic.
- Steroids have been popular among gay men for decades. For some, they're life changing — but for others, they can be debilitating.
- Relationships between two disabled people can offer a profound level of mutual care and understanding.
- Sex and relationship experts tell us what it means to be bicurious (and why it’s a somewhat controversial term).
- We asked dating experts and actual heteroflexible people to explain what the term means to them.
- A European man has been in remission for 20 months after a stem cell treatment.
- The Executive Director of the LGBTQ+ civil rights organization National Black Justice Coalition sat down with Them to explain the ramifications of the decision.
- Gaydar has long been the tongue-in-cheek answer to “how to know if someone is gay.” Is there any truth to it?
- Hoops, makeup, and extravagant acrylics are just the surface of chongi culture.
- Bottoming can feel intimidating to first-timers. Here's everything you need to know before you dive in.
- What is the history of nonbinary folks? What are the differences between genderqueer, gender fluid, and enby people? We’ve got you covered.
- Self-care should be a way to ground yourself, not empty your wallet.
- Taking steps to protect yourself and your community ahead of protesting is crucial.
- During an especially brutal year for LGBTQ+ rights, it's important to gather with community. Luckily, there's more ways to do so than ever before.
- Them columnist María Saldana tackles the ways alcohol consumption can hurt our loved ones.
- At least one grifter is targeting trans people with ineffective and potentially dangerous supplements.
- Sex workers, therapists, educators, and more give their best advice for talking about STIs with your boo.
- Elly Belle explains how to handle anxiety, stress, and internalized homophobia after coming out.
- Ending any relationship is hard, let alone one with a therapist. Queer mental health experts explain how to know when it’s time.
- Them and Teen Vogue spoke to five organizers across the country about what they’ve learned, and what you need to know.
- When lawmakers, school administrators, and coaches won’t support trans kids, it’s up to us to stand up for their rights.
- Evan Rachel Wood, Kawennáhere Devery Jacobs, and Kudakwashe Rutendo are set to star.
- While organized religion can be traumatizing for many queer and trans people, meaningful spiritual practices can help you find inner peace and meaning. Here are a few tips to uncover your own.
- From painting to dancing to drag, seven people told us how their queer hobbies brought them meaning and joy.
- After being bullied and closeted for so many years, I held my first queer love up to an impossible standard.
- The new rules will reportedly allow men in monogamous relationships to donate freely.
- Building queer community isn’t always a linear process. This week, columnist María Saldana tackles loneliness and queer friendship.
- Concerned that your voter ID doesn’t match your registration or you’ll be turned away? Read on.
- Sometimes, a firm hug, nourishing meal, and other wordless acts of kindness are what your partner needs most.
- Set to take effect on August 21, the new rules prevent trans adults from using Medicaid to pay for gender-affirming care.
- There’s plenty to be absolutely pissed about this year. What are you going to do about it?
- One-time donations and attending reactionary events won't cut it. Organizers say true allyship is about being consistent.
- From dunking your head in water to yoga, these expert recommendations can help calm you when you need it most.
- Social anxiety can make community building and queer nightlife feel overwhelming. Here are some tips to help.
- While keeping my transness a secret kept me safe, sharing my truth helped me see I was so much more than just a woman.
- Spiritual and mental health experts explain why queer people are burnt out, and what we can do about it.
- If you’re going out with a Scorpio, good luck.
- These alcohol-free brands bring all the fun with none of the regrets.
- We're queer. We get to write our own rules. Consensual intimacy among friends can be one of them.
- Surviving breast cancer as a gender-nonconforming person of color brought me a unique kind of struggle — and surprising opportunities.
- People often assume I’m uber-masculine just because I’m a Dom. There's way more to me underneath the leather.
- As a gay, Black dancer living with HIV, being single during the pandemic helped me realize I was treating myself as a sexual object.
- “Even if ‘I’m neutral about my body!’ doesn’t seem like something to shout from the rooftops, that’s actually kind of the point: Body neutrality meets me where I am.”
- My eating disorder was the only thing that gave me control over my appearance, until I realized I was losing myself.
- If we call everything queer, then nothing will be.
- Through interviews with over a dozen expert queer healers — including traditional psychologists, sex therapists, personal trainers, reiki masters and hypnotists — we’ve compiled a guide for self-care during these scary times.
- Dating while intersex can be hard, with partners prone to misunderstand your body. My experiences have taught me how to accept my differences.
- Ok, they won't really. But they'll make you feel better!
- A guide to self-care online.
COMMUNITY
CULTURE
WHAT TO READ AND STREAM
Our favorite LGBTQ+ literature, music, and entertainment right now.
- The post-punk band’s new album tackles a broken medical system, abortion restrictions, and gun violence.
- Pierce opens up about reparenting therapy, fundamentalism, gender, and more.
- The author’s follow-up to We the Animals takes the reader on a surreal dive into the archive.
- In a new memoir, the Jeopardy! champion upends her trivia show persona.
- Her new album Gentle Confrontation turns electronica into a warm invitation.
- Jillian and Mariko Tamaki talk to Them about their new graphic novel collaboration.
- The previously shelved French-pop album has 10 songs and a guest appearance by Paris Hilton.
- “Without the lows, you can’t have the highs.”
- Our playlist of angsty, moody, and nostalgic tracks will help you navigate the autumnal vibe shift.
- On her debut solo album, Romy is writing about queer love in ways she never could with the xx.
- Featuring new music from Jaboukie, Mykki Blanco, Samantha Urbani, and more.
- The comedian opens up about his eclectic and surprisingly personal musical debut.
- The Vermont-based musician talks to Them about their new EP Again.
- Our guide to the best LGBTQ+ films on Kanopy.
- From moving memoirs to haunting horror stories.
- Psychics, pills, and sobriety loom large in Ruth Madievsky’s All-Night Pharmacy.
- Tre’vell Anderson’s We See Each Other explores the paradox of visibility, from “The Transgender Tipping Point” to Pose.
- Author Tirzah Price gave the Regency romance a queer makeover.
- In Haley Jakobson’s coming-of-age novel, a survivor of sexual assault finds queer community.
- Sociologist Greggor Mattson bar-hopped across the country to uncover the future of LGBTQ+ spaces.
- Manuel Betancourt’s new book of criticism delights in the flexibility of interpretation.
- From boarding school dramas to bisexual disaster comedies, the gang’s all here.
- Because thinking is overrated.
- From One Day at a Time to Vida, make time for these must-sees.
- Them contributors hand-picked their favorite queer horror films.
- From nihilistic road trips to lesbian vengeance, this list has everything.
- If you liked Fire Island, you'll love this list.
- From Smiley Face to Priscilla, Queen of the Desert, get hazy with a queer classic.
- Let us help you find your next queer watch.
- Good rom-coms are rare. Good queer rom-coms are even rarer.