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My wife started "jokingly" making snide comments that I was having affair. I thought she was teasing me so I mostly ignored her or laughed with her. I didn't know she was actually serious. Then she was getting more irritated and arguments increased. In one argument, I asked her what her problem was and she told me that I am cheating. She started telling me all the time I was late from work, or how I was staring at a woman in Park etc.

I tried to explain everything and resolve her doubts. I even offered her therapy to clear her doubts. Then she started demanding to see my cellphone. I was like nope, I dont have to do it. I never asked to see her cellphone by the way. She told me if I have nothing to hide, I should do it.

I told her, she should trust me, and I should not have to give proof of my honesty to her. But she would not let it go so I unlocked it and told her. If she looks into my phone, we are done.

She checked my phone and I just went numb. Of course she didnt find anything. I never cheated and I dont plan to ever cheat. I told her I will move out and we can figure out rest. She freaked out and tried to apologize but there is not going back.

Now she is blaming it on pregnancy hormones saying she was having dreams that I was cheating. I understand that, but she should have trusted me, I dont have to provide proof, it should be implicit otherwise why marry me? If she was having bad thoughts we could just talk it out, went to therapy. She should not have put me in this position its very insulting that my own wife does wants proof of my fidelity. That she thinks that I am a kind of person who will cheat on his wife, pregnant wife on top of that.

She called her parents and they called mine and they all are trying to make me forgive her. I have made up my mind. She crossed the line. Its over. I just feel sad. I had planned a lot of things, I had spent countless hours baby proofing my house, I just wanted a happy family for myself and its all gone. Now I have to figure out how to be a single parent.

My phone is buzzing all fucking day, I have stopped replying to texts and receiving calls. I do think I have a right to be trusted in my own marriage without having to give proof every step of the way

EDIT: I largely work from home, I did not spend lots of time away from her, I have to go to work 2 days a week