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I have officially deleted all dating apps and made the right decision
Yeah honestly man thank you for sharing your experience. I’m also a shorter Hispanic man and I struggle with dating just like you. It feels incredibly comforting and validating to see it’s not just me.
It’s not like I don’t put in the effort.
I’ve been in therapy for several years, dropped a good 60-70 pounds, started going out more, dressing better, started volunteering, and currently planning to get a 2nd masters.
None of it has translated to actual dating success and sometimes it honestly feels like a lost cause. It’s nice to know that it’s not just us and to realize that plenty of other people struggle with modern dating.
It’s just how dating is nowadays, unless you’re in the top 1%. Now that doesn’t mean we can’t find stuff to improve about ourselves or that we shouldn’t try. It does mean we shouldn’t spend time needlessly blaming ourselves for things beyond our control.
In the end all it does it make us feel worse and demotivate us to continue doing the right things. You seem like a good dude and I wish you luck + success.