this is a community like r/AmITheAsshole except unlike that subreddit here you can post interpersonal conflicts, anything that's AITA but is not allowed there even posting about Scar from the lion king and trying to convince redditors that he was not the AH. rules: don't berate others and no pornography we have children here
I (21F) had an irregular period for a few months after staring a new birth control.
Unfortunately my periods stained about 1/3 of my undies in the crotch area. It’s faint, but it’s still fairly noticeable. It’s a light rusty brown shade.
Now that my period is more regular the stained pairs have become my “period week underwear”.
The guy I’m seeing says he doesn’t mind period sex, but when we were doing the dirty he got REALLY grossed out when he saw my underwear. I was confused and explained it was an old period blood stain.
He told me how “unsexy” it was to see what looked like a sh*t stain in my underwear (wtf?). He asked if next time I could change into a “clean” pair. Not gonna lie this pissed me off.
I told him to grow up, and sarcastically apologized that my NORMAL BODILY FUNCTIONS is “unsexy” to him. Plus I pointed out he saw me pick out that pair of CLEAN underwear from my freshly washed laundry an hour ago after my shower.
We kept going in circles so I finally kicked him out of my place and texted him I’m not interested in seeing him anymore. I blocked his number. I’m too old to deal with someone who thinks blood stains are icky.
All of my gal pals agree that he’s immature since most women have a designated set of period stained underwear for shark week.
However a few of my guy friends said his reaction was understandable since he didn’t understand what it was, and I was too harsh. I could’ve “educated” him instead of going 0-100.
AITAH?