If I don't friend you, please don't take it personally. I usually friend people if I'm already friends with them in the non-LJ sense (online or off), if I've met them in a community and think they sound interesting, or if I already read and like their journal. If you're not one of those, I may friend you back, but I may not. If I don't friend you, don't be offended.
Hope you enjoy my journal.
OTHER PLACES YOU CAN FIND ME
I founded and co-moderate crimson_optics, a Decepticon fan community. Because the Decepticons are awesome.
I have a fanfiction journal (currently all Transformers fanfic) over at my Dreamwidth. I also draw the aforesaid giant robots and post the results over at my DeviantArt page.
I and some other folks also blog at Let Them Eat Pro-SM Feminist Safe Spaces. That blog is (primarily) for discussion of BDSM as it relates to feminism and various kinds of feminist theory.
I goof off and be way too nerdy about twenty-year-old movies over at The Hellbound Web forums. The Hellbound Web is a Hellraiser fan site. I'm "stainless" on the boards over there.