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What is a fact about humans that instantly blew your mind?

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This reminded me I need to restock on travel sickness tablets when I do my weekly shop

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Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup

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I think I'm going to ruin my relationship if I can't get better at spiralling, so I would really like advice on how to cope better.

My boyfriend made a new set of gaming friends about 6 months ago. He's studying and is on summer break atm, so he spends a lot of time with them. There's about 12 of them in the group but my boyfriend is closest to two of them, which includes a very attractive girl.

Every time he plays with them, I just lose my mind ans spiral out of control. It especially hurts if he hasn't asked me to play first. It just makes me think he prefers hanging out with them, bc he would ask me first if he actually wanted to hang out right. Some of the games they play are group games but require you to buddy up in duos, when I see he has buddied up with the girl it makes me feel insecure. Like is he enjoying his time with her more than me, does she make him laugh more than me etc.

I've tried distractions but they never seem to work because my thoughts are just so overpowering. I've also tried journaling but it actually makes me more angry seeing it all written out.

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AITA for telling my nurse boyfriend that adults work full time?

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he also has debts he can't afford to pay off, I would be annoyed if the person I dated had debts AND the option to make more money but decided it was too stressful (barring MH issues).

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Would you go to your girlfriends granddad's funerals?

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Tbh if I didn't get along with my family, I'd want my partner there even more so

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Have you had less children than you would have liked?

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Ah yes because being a woman you are never asked about having children unprompted

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Fast Food workers, what menu item should everyone avoid from where you work?

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wow another reason to not get pregnant

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Are we splitting the household chores evenly?

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I don't like most men in the UK go to the pub and leave her fending for herself, i change nappies spend time, im a father i do my fatherly minimums at very least

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comments like these don't help your argument btw, makes it sound like you think your wife should be grateful you aren't an absent father/husband like 'most men' are.

Its always a difficult situation when people view chores as different priorities. My ex was very much let dishes stack up and blast them all at once, I was the opposite and wanted to do them asap. Does the ironing really need to be done every day?

Are you also sharing the mental load of running a household fairly? like do you both do a fair amount of planning and scheduling for the kids?

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AITA for paying child-support to my ex-wife?

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Totally agree, but why would she enter a relationship like this?

I would never be in a relationship where my partner is financing his ex's luxurious lifestyle lol.

Also what happens when CS ends? Is he going to keep financing this. If not what is the wife going to do? She's been seriously out of the workforce for 18 years

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Weird Impression Phase, anyone help?

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Yep my impressions down 80% overnight on monday. Other metrics have all increased - ctr, watch time etc. So my videos just aren't being shown outside a core audience.

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My (29M) girlfriend (33F) does not want to pay rent when she moves into a house I will co-own with my mate (M29). What would be a fair arrangement?

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How much rent would she be paying compared to the market rate? because she's right, she's sharing a room not renting a whole room.

She also won't have the same protections as a tenant/lodger. Would she be expected to pay for house maintenance/appliances etc?

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Sandwiches for sale in London, 1972

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dibs on posting it in 2026

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Outrage after football club votes to remove entire female section

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Tbh I wasn't arguing for or against the club being sexist, I was just saying I don't think sexist people will always make logical decisions regarding the sex they are biased against

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Outrage after football club votes to remove entire female section

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I would argue sexist people don't always make decisions founded by logic

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AITA for eating chicken fingers at a Italian restaurant?

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He would be YTA for ordering something off the menu?

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A 2015 photo has resurfaced that seems to be the inspiration for Sabrina Carpenter’s “Short n’ Sweet” cover.

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lol I was confused at all the comments saying its natural

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AITA for telling my wife she takes me for granted and to stop digging me out for “not doing enough”

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God you are so condescending 😂

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AITA for not correcting older kids who use the term half siblings for my younger kids?

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She doesn't give her age but as she has a 15-year-old I'll assume she's on the older side, I can't blame her for not waiting longer

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This is the most wonderful thing you’ll see. For their one year anniversary Sophie did something monumental amazing for Jamie. They truly are soulmates. 🤍

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He only has daughters I believe? So probably something about losing the family name blah blah

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Is she doing childcare for your child then?

My point was did you only bring up her changing jobs while she was pregnant/pp? Because it's quite selfish if you did, and was probably a convo to have before getting pregnant. It's probably one of the hardest/least ideal times to find a higher-paying job. She seems to have a stable career while having a literal infant.

Is it not possible to wait until your child is in nursery, and you take reduced hours for mental health?

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We also recently welcomed our first child less than a year ago.

Your child is less than a year old, is she part-time to look after said child?

My wife and I are fully aligned on her keeping her dream job until she can find something better, but it's been a year or so of this.

It's been a year but she's been pregnant and postpartum during that time?

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