Don't tell them the African American community can be just as homophobic as the rednecks that destroys the narrative.
Believe it was just a couple days ago a fairly high profile rapper was openly saying homophobic shit on his live stream, Da Baby did it last year, T.I defended him, Lil Boosie took it another step further.
People need to stop making blanket statements about large groups of people. Call out the individuals acting like douchebags don't generalize. Does nobody any favors.
was just waiting for this.. of course, blacks were gonna come up, yous can't keep them out of your mouth.
I think we need to start distinguishing between the two different groups of incels or else we will keep talking past each other. There are incels that are 'only' unsuccesful in dating, and these men (and also women, to a lesser extent) are all around us. I'm sure I have a roommate and at least one friend that fit into this incel 'archetype'.
Then there are the incels that have adopted a misogynistic worldview and that actively hate women. They set ultra high standards by demanding all their dates are virgins, or say things like that women hit the wall at 23. Some are ultra-conservative and basically want a housewife and baby making machine. I would ask anyone unfamiliar with this group to visit the incel message boards, where they debate about how rape should be legal or share videos of women being beaten up for laughs, and then come back to me with the naieve mantra that these are just misunderstood boys that get mistreated by evil women.
The first group needs patience and kindness, and needs to be reintegrated into society. The economic problems that create this group need to be addressed, and we need to have honest conversations about unfair social expectations and toxic dating culture. However, I find that these men rarely call themselves incels because everyone knows that label has strong ideological ties. Hell, I have male friends that are unsuccesful romantically and sexually, but they don't hate women and they don't call themselves incels either. These are not the men this article talks about, because they are not the incels that form violent threats to women.
The incels that are a danger to women are members of the second group. And that group is not just going to be saved with kindness and patience. Ultimately, they are a product of societal problems just like the first group, but they have spun their misfortunes into a dangerous narrative that transcends economic hardship or unfair dating markets. We can try and fit them into society all we want but ultimately they need to work on themselves, too. We could fix economic issues and fix unfair dating culture and they would still go around calling women 'femoids' and spend their evenings rage-posting on forums about how seeing girls in public fills them with violent rage.
Some are ultra-conservative and basically want a housewife and baby making machine.
Nothing wrong with this demand, but most don't have the wealth and ego for the husband that the women they desire want.
We could start with things like social isolation and loneliness. There is less and less spaces for young men to spend time that don't involve drinking alcohol. We have banned most young people from everywhere kids are harassed in parks for loitering youth clubs are non existent. Schools have many groups dedicated to other social groups such as minority clubs, women can code etc but no groups for young men.
Demonization of men in media also doesn't help. Calls for more women only spaces implying all man are potential threat. Crazy rules we have around certain jobs such as the amount am mental gymnastics needed to put chaperones around male doctors and male nursery assistants or health care workers. As a male care worker I was forbidden from being in a room with a female patient unsupervised. My female co-worker could be in room with both male and female patients. If I can't be trusted not to be a rapist why am I even employed?
Poor social care and mental health that don't spot the people that need help.
Young men especially young white working class men underperform in almost every metric from health, mental health through being victims of violence and aggression to education and career prospects but we refuse to address it.
Finally our own society "small dick energy", "angry virgin" etc are all the insults that are targeted at those young men from people who claim oppose the view that man value comes from sexual activity.
Want to stop Incels and other radicalisation solve complex social and economic issues affecting those groups
Schools have many groups dedicated to other social groups such as minority clubs, women can code etc but no groups for young men.
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eh he's 22, I'm not worried for another 5 years tbh.
In traditional society, children are an asset, while in modern society children are a liability.
My parents grew up in the first case. My children will grow up in the latter, so I can compare. In traditional society, children are left to themselves from the time they start walking on their own. They spend more time outside playing with their peers and older brothers and require very little attention. At the age of 8-10, they start to be actively involved in work, and from 12-13 years, they are full-fledged workers. Plus they look after younger children. The bigger the family you have, the bigger the household and the bigger the house you can afford. And also a big family has more authority and respect, including in resolving conflicts. When parents get older, more children can take care of them. This makes life easier for the elderly and their children. In short, the more children, the better life.
In today's society, children require an enormous investment of time and resources without any return. Then they grow up and leave their parents. In short, the more children you have, the worse your life is.
nah more like 5-6 they start working, my grandads in ghana had to help with filleting fish and milking goats respectively.
What does milking fish mean? cleared up
my bad, meant milking goats.
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I feel sorry the debuting guy
Doesnโt he fight out of UK somewhere or Europe? O2 sees like 1 event every other year if that. Got to have a banger for the home team
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Facts, I still think about that cumshot chimaev insult. Too early to have been made ๐๐
Would love to see him and orochimaru more tbh, who knows maybe they'll learn about uzumaki seals more so boruto can use alongside the jougan to seal up eida, her brother and maybe kawaki
Remember when all girls were into to him ๐
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