Like i think the whole getting drunk culture is dumb anyway, so i don’t get drunk when i go out. It’s a little sloppy and I’m not like looking to “party” like that. I stop at maybe 2-3 drinks and I’m good. I don’t like putting alcohol in my body cuz of guilt too. However, socially EVERY outing involves drinking. Pool? Drink. Rooftop? Drink. Picnic? Champagne. Bar? Of course drink.

Like I get slightly hungry after 11pm too, men should hit on women by sending them over something off the appetizer menu or a dessert plate instead. We’re out all night, liquid alcohol isn’t going to keep me standing. We need carbs. Thanks. I’m also wanting to hilariously point out that for those messaging me as a gold digger for wanting an alternative to alcohol, honey.. you have NO gold. (Imagine me making a post about a serious purchase like.. um a car or house).

Edit: A lot of men here have probably never been in a social situation where they wanted to befriend an attractive girl at a bar and bought her a drink or two (generously offered) before. Otherwise you wouldn’t have your panties in a bunch over * gasp *such expensive appetizers :/ I feel bad for the ladies in your city who have to be subjected to such ridiculous behavior. If you have a problem with treating someone, say it. (Like, really way to announce you’re a man that has nothing to spare cuz women are SO expensive right?! What about being able to provide for a family? Lmao). Don’t ridicule the social norm. Lol

But all in all, thanks for some enthusiastic comments about treating a girl to some bar food if she doesn’t like drinking. It’s definitely a good starter and you can spend a bit more time with her. It’s also a tad harder to run away with a plate of wings.

Edit 2: Also to go deeper because ya’ll reallyyyy wanna go there. Even as far as to go and call women prostitutes for asking for appetizers instead. LOL. Some have pointed out that alcohol is preferred and that “beggars shouldn’t be choosers and just be grateful a drink was bought for you” because a guy has the advantage when a girl is drunk. So if you care if she’s a bit hungry or not, it doesn’t benefit the men trying to get laid that night. Because buying a complimentary drink is to not be nice. In fact food slows down how fast a girl can get drunk. So that’s why ya’ll are mad when women want the food alternative to alcohol. Alcohol is to inebriate women, wings don’t. It all makes sense now. Thanks