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So I feed some ferals in my backyard and one of them showed up with a kitten one day! I took the kitten (3-4 mos) in and I’ve had the kitten for about 3 weeks. The first week he was completely separated from my other cat and kept in his own base camp. The second week is when they started smelling each other and pawing at each other through the door. Now the kitten is exploring the rest of the house and he is suuuupeer hyper. My older cat (4 yrs) only plays for a little but he’s mainly pretty chill.

Now onto this week.

I have a mesh cat tent that I put my kitten in yesterday to let my cat smell him and interact with him but still have a barrier. Throughout the entirety of the time my kitten has been here, my older cat has not hissed, has not had his ears back, or displayed any kind of aggressive behavior. He still didn’t display any of that while my kitten was in the tent. He was swatting and trying to bite through the mesh but that was the worst of it. I decided it went well so a little later in the day I kept my kitten on my lap and had my cat smell him. They touched noses and nothing happened except they swatted at each other. Today I decided that went pretty well since swatting is normal so I let them face to face. My kitten pounced on my cat IMMEDIATELY and kept running at him. My cat got scared and ran away. He was meowing a lot and my kitten kept trying to have a go at him so I separated them.

I’ve been all about not rushing the process since the beginning but now I feel like I goofed and rushed their face to face intro. I feel like I should’ve kept the mesh tent going on for a couple of days. Is this normal? Will my cat be afraid of him now? Do they just need to resolve this on their own?

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Posted by16 hours ago

We have two mixed breed rescues, Milo (8) and Kona (3). About a year ago, we acquired a laser-pointer after friends showed us how much their dogs enjoyed chasing the red dot around their house. For a month or two, we did this for perhaps 5 minutes at a time on no regular schedule.

Initially both dogs were interested in chasing it. But pretty quickly Milo lost interest. But Kona still seemed to enjoy chasing it. At some point she figured out that the red dot was associated with something I held in my hand that came from a kitchen drawer. From that point forward, whenever she heard me enter the room, she’d run over to that part of the kitchen and look from me to the drawer and back. It was incessant. And sometimes I played, sometimes not. But her play and associated bark slowly began to take on a different character and progressed from play towards aggression at the dot. So, a month or two after we started, we retired the laser pointer for good. That was perhaps 8 months ago.

Then a new thing happened. We had random instances where Kona took notice of sunlight glinting off of random objects as we moved around the kitchen doing normal things. It could be a pitcher of water, a watch crystal, or a phone screen. But she’d pursue and bark at the shiny speck. But as it wasn’t a long-lived event, her actions and bark never ramped back up to where it had been with red dot.

But now she’s hyper-fixated on shadows. Our kitchen has perhaps 8 canned lights. So, during the times of day when the kitchen lights are on, when Kona looks at the floor, she’ll see her own shadow cast from those 8 light locations. And since she’s moving her head and wagging her tail, the ear. and tail shadows are moving. She’s not actively pursuing the shadows, but we’ll find her fixated on them for 10-15 minutes at a time. Sometimes we’ll distract her with another toy. Other times we’ll turn off the lights. And still others it’s not apparent what she sees, because the humans are in a mostly dark room illuminated by only a computer screen that Kona is not observing, but she’s fixated on a dark area.

I’m wondering if anyone has any guidance on how to “untrain” this behavior.

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