I fully expect some humorous answers to this and welcome that in addition to some truth.

Can someone please explain to me why almost every man I've ever come across refuses to go into a woman's purse to grab something even if asked. What brought up this question: Right now I carry a small purse....like the size of a clutch so not much in there. Tonight I asked my bf to grab my vape out of my purse cuz it was quite literally sitting right next to him. Knowing guys (including him) and their weird feelings about doing thiwls I tell him "just open it and it's like the only thing in there with my chap stick" nope he grabbed the whole thing and handed it to me. I kinda understood him doing this when I carried a big bag....cuz it's a big bag and they get lost lol but a tiny one? I don't get it.

It's been this way with every guy I've been with. Any guy friends and even my brother. I remember one time in particular asking my brother to grab something out of there and he brings me the whole thing and said "I ain't going in there" he was like 30!

It's not something I ask guys to do a lot and I'm not lazy it's just something I've noticed and am seriously curious about. Why are guys so afraid of women's purses? What do you think we keep in there. If you are specifically told you can go in there to grab something (sometimes my bf's stuff is in there and he's asking for it....still brings me the whole damn purse lol) why won't you just grab it???? Lol