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So we bought our home in 2019. We scored a 3bed 1bath 990sqft with around 1.5 acres in the country (Southern Virginia) for $67,000 with a 4.8% interest rate.Now that my kids are older we are debating what to do once I graduate nursing school. The house is in good shape but it does need some repairs and renos. Older style house (80s) and it does need a new hvac and probably a roof. In order to make it our dream home there are a few things we want to do… -take out the separating wall in the kitchen/living room,add a master bed and bath,new flooring,new siding, paint inside,back deck, and I’d really love the back yard fenced in. So my question is,would it be cheaper to fix our current home to meet our “dreams” or would it be better just to sell and buy something that checks all of our boxes? Or even to build? I’d like to add that my husband and I could do probably 80% of the labor by ourselves.

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So, I am a respectable neighbor. I do not make noise, have loud soundsystems, I take care of my yard, and I pay my HOA on time. I say hi to neighbor if I see them, but otherwise stay out of there business.

However, EVERYWHERE I have lived I eventually run into someone who doesn't seem to believe the same ideas.

In apartments, it was every year I would have to move because 50% of people think its cool to be noisy and live like you don't have neighbors around you in a thin cheap apartment. Sometimes even had to call the cops on one who was literally beating the sh*t out of his wife or gf and you could hear it through the walls.

I eventually got away from that hell on earth and moved into a townhome when I could finally afford that. Eventually the same BS. Again, 50% of tenants great, the other half annoying as hell.

FINALLY, MOVE INTO A HOUSE WITH ZERO SHARED WALLS. TOTAL PEACE FINALLY RIGHT?

No, once again a neighbor moves out after a year and then a new one moves in and has a subwoofer that plays endless music all day and night. I have no idea how to make it stop and we don't have shared walls so thought this would stop.

The issue though is that it is low enough that I really can't complain about it. You can hear it slightly in the walls. If I pull out a decibel reader and put it to the correct levels to detection, you can see it jumping but it is well below levels to complain about.

I am just very aware of it and it is like chinese water torture.

Is this just what it is like to live in the USA now? You just have to deal with this no matter where you live? Do I really have to leave the country and move to a country like Japan to have peaceful and normal neighbors who respect one another?

I am just tired of this. Also, before anyone says "if you are always having problems with neighbors, maybe you are the problem". Again, I am not. I never get complaints from neighbors and the saying doesn't work in this situation (also, I have heard the opposite from neighbors saying I am one of there favorite neighbors they had in a while. Doesn't happen often and not in that exact verbage, but its been said a couple time). So that is not the issue.

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