(Throwaway account)

I(26m) hate my wifes (26f/Katie(fake name)) bff(26f), let's call her Lisa(fake name). Some backstory, I met my wife when we were in high school and we had the same friend group. After a few months of knowing Katie I fell in love with her, I ended up confessing my love for her since then we went on many dates. We dated for about 6 years and then I proposed to her, we both were extremely happy with each other, we told our family and friends. Lisa(my wife has known since they were 7 years old) wasn't so happy or congratulated us, at that time I didn’t think of why she wasn’t happy that her bff got engaged. My wife asked Lisa to be her maid of honor.

After 4 years of our marriage I noticed that my wife for some odd reason changed her

mind about a lot of stuff. For some reason Lisa started to visit my wife 3-4 days per week, but after everytime Lisa visited us, me and my wife would have a disagreement over small things like her wanting to become a housewife and that I have a “problem” with it (I don’t have an issue with it whatsoever). After 2 months my wife moved back in with her parents for some space. After she came back out of nowhere she stopped trusting me with simple tasks.

After Katie became pregnant since may of this year I noticed that when Lisa came to our house my wife started to change, a month ago I came home early and I couldn’t help myself but overhear their conversations without their knowledge and I heard Lisa talking bad about me and telling my wife that she should abort the baby, so the baby’s sign wouldn’t be a aquarius(my wife is a cancer sign), my heart broke when I heard my wife saying that she will consider doing that. But since I trust my wife I said nothing, but after a month she talked to me about aborting the baby. And I disagreed with her and she said nothing. Yesterday I noticed that my wife lost a lot of weight, she broke down sobbing telling me that she aborted the baby a week ago without telling me, I was lived at what she said so I shouted at her and told her shouldn’t listen to all of Lisa’s bullshit and she started defending Lisa saying that I shouldn’t talk about her bff like that I ended up yelling at her more saying that Lisa did nothing but brainwash her. I ended up packing all of my stuff and asking my older brother if I could stay with him for a few weeks. I told him everything and now I’m thinking of divorcing my wife over this.