r/teenagers

So I’m a 17 year old dude that hung around this little church group. One of the guys asked me to go on this fishing trip I was like alright, never been fishing but maybe it’s amazing(it’s not). While we were fishing and waiting for bites he put his hand on my leg. I was like what are you doing bro, and he told me that he was just joking and he joked with his other friends like that. I was like alr, so I joked back, saying shi like, “Meet me in the car later wink. Nothing physical, just regular straight dude humor.

After I said something like that, he kept trying to touch me higher and higher while staring into my eyes, each time I said it was making me uncomfortable and saying to stop. I’m not a very confrontational person which is probably why it dragged on so long. He kept telling me he was gonna take me up on that offer in the car. I kept saying I was joking and he should quit, but then proceeded to list prices. I just kept telling him shut up and no. Worst thing was, I drove him there and being the good friend I was, offered to drive him back to his house. We got in the car and I started driving.

He started undoing his belt and I told him to stop and then he tried grabbing my freaking crotch. I pulled onto the side of the road and told him if he wanted a ride, to stop doing that. Then he told I was going the wrong way and as I was looking at my gps he said, “If I’m right you gotta show me.” I ignored him and just went on slapping his hand from trying to grab my crotch. I dropped and off and that was the end of that. I think I’m WAAAAAAY to passive for my own good. Idk if that counts as sexual assault but now he keeps texting me like nothing happened asking me if I’m alr. I’m ignoring him but idk what to do considering he still seems like a good dude. Ik he’s not technically but I don’t like involving in shit like that. Sorry for the ramble but needed to get that off my chest and this dude was actually one of my close venting buddies. And sorry for typos