No such thing as stupid questions

And I ended up getting invited to stay the night sleeping with her in her bed. But there was nothing sexual about, and I didn't try to start anything. Now on that surface level my friend called me an idiot because “obviously if someone invites you to sleep over in their bed they want to do something, you should have made a move."

But these things make me think I read the situation differently.

First, I was only invited to stay over after drinking and getting high started, basically "hey you're drunk/high, you don't have to walk home/get an Uber at 2am.

Second, there was never anything in a sexual context leading up to it. We had talked about sex as a topic but there was never like any kind of tension between us. Like even getting into bed she asked it as "do you want to cuddle in bed", why say cuddle unless you're setting expectations.

Plus earlier in the night she was comparing me to her little brother who is the same age, which would be a weird comparison to make if you were also thinking about someone sexually.

So, I think I read it right, but I guess tell me if I'm an idiot Reddit

Edit 1: love to hear more opinions, I’ve decided since I’m getting some opinions both ways I’m just gonna straight up ask her later. Thanks all

Edit 2: to everyone asking since I don’t make it clear hear, yes I am into her and would want to sleep with her. Will do a the final update in a couple hours.

Edit 3: okay yea, good chance I was an idiot, but also drunk/high and not tryna make a mistake so cut me some slack. I’ll talk to her later today after work cuz I gotta stop by her place and do a final edit with the final verdict. And yes we did fall asleep cuddled up.

FINAL UPDATE: (edit 4) so y’all, spoke with the girl, and to start thanks for everyone who gassed me the fuck up, appreciate it lol. But it turns out I was right (and y’all were wrong)! Haha! She said that she had a great night and does feel really close to me, just that sex was never really the goal that night. And followed up saying it isn’t that she wouldn’t, it just wasn’t the goal that night. So here’s the good news, there were no hurt feelings AND while we’re both going out of town for the holiday weekend, we’re making plans to see each other again when we’re back next week. So honestly I see this as a win because 1. I wasn’t wrong that night and 2. Now I know that it is actually in the cards at a later date. Probably gonna let this account go dormant again, but perhaps if some development happens I’ll come back and make an “Eagle has landed” post.