You're always better off with a really good lie.

I think it's in the end of season 3, when Spencer finds out Toby is part of the A-team, when she goes to the grave of his mum in the hope of finding him there and she sees the fresh flowers he bought. And her reaction is to scratch his name next to his mothers?? Like wtf?

This was by far the most awful thing one of the liars did, killing not counting. I understand that most of the things they do is because of sadness or rage but even then you still have some decency. And I know Spencer was heartbroken and had a burnout but still... let me explain why I think that was so extra awful.

Spencer knew very well how much his mum meant to him. He thought she killed herself and left him. Spencer knew that the consequence of her death was Jenna who raped Toby many times and also the whole Jenna thing happened because his mother wasn't there anymore. So you can only imagine how much he must wish to get her back and how hard it is for him to be left alone. A tombstone like this is so expensive but Tobys family doesn't seem to care about his mum so he'd have to pay in order to change the tombstone. Spencer knew that his mother had nothing to do with it and I don't care about the symbolic act of writing his name next to hers. Spencer was the smartest of the friendsgroup, she wasn't as impulsive as Aria or Hanna which makes her likable for me. But after that I couldn't really stand her that much anymore. And she didn't even face consequences. What is your opinion?