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Posted by1 month ago

I was catching up with someone from the sangha recently and I was struck by how I could tell they were constantly thinking about whether I'm "bright and shiny."

I remember I used to meditate before phone calls with sangha mates so that when I spoke to them that "light" came through.
However, constantly forcing myself to be "bright and shiny", was never real.
I never felt like I would be accepted as my real live human self.
I learned extremely quickly that my dark sense of humor was not accepted, having a bad day was bad manners, that any range of conversation topics were off limits because they weren't "bright" enough.

I'm so happy not to be in such a limiting place anymore.
I genuinely think that if enlightenment is real it includes ALL of life, and any path that forces people to pretend to be a certain way is deeply flawed.
It's so much better to be myself and to be accepted in the real world as I am.
It so much better to have friends who are real, who are accepting of all conversation topics and all sides of me.
It's so much better to have friends who don't judge each and everything I do as either "bright" or "not bright".

Especially when their definition of "bright" is entirely based on "Did Samvara ever say that this specific hobby is good? Did Samvara ever say that this specific song is good? Did Samvara ever say that dressing this way, making jokes this way, living this way, is good?"

Some people in the sangha might read this and think "well that's an issue with the sangha, not an issue with Samvara". However, never forget, Samvara does this exact same thing. He taught everyone else to behave the same way. All issues with the sangha spiral out from him.

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Posted byu/[deleted]3 months ago
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Posted by3 months ago

There's a common story from Tibetan Buddhism that is told by many of the core members from this organization and it gets tossed around a lot without much understanding, and it's the story of Milarepa.

For those who do not know, Milarepa is one of Tibet's most famous yogis and an accomplished practitioner of Tibetan Buddhism. When he was a child he lost his father and also his wealth. His wealth went to his aunt and uncle and they even made Milarepa and his mother their servants. His mother would then take Milarepa and have him learn sorcery to take revenge on his aunt and uncle. He succeeds in taking revenge, but he eventually realizes this isn't good and that he should right his wrongs by finding the correct teacher, which would be Marpa, one of Tibet's most renown Buddhist teachers at the time.

Before Marpa was willing to accept Milarepa as a student, Milarepa had to undergo a series of challenges which included building a tower and then destroying it three times. He builds it one more time and he finally is accepted as a student.

Note: Tibetan Buddhism has a lot to do with esoteric transmission, meaning that teachings are to be given and received directly from teacher to student and without a sense of context of the practice there would not be any empowerment or the teaching will fail.

Buddhadojo uses this story a lot when Karma Yoga projects fail. They treat each start up project that fails as building a tower and destroying it again as if you're burning off negative karma according to their misuse of this story.

The issue arises when this organization's core members tell you that you need to be Milarepa whenever a project fails because you have done nothing similar to him in that you never committed anything close to using sorcery to enact revenge on your own family, so why would a teaching from Marpa be for you? And why would your so called "teacher" from Buddhadojo be taking on the the role of Marpa telling you to do something over and over again when they are not him and don't even have the lineage to even be him? They are not Marpa. You do not bear Milarepa's karma.

The core members of this cult take advantage of this story for their own benefit and misrepresents it. They take away the story's authenticity by including parts that help them and removes parts that do not serve them. They are using Buddhism to fulfill their capitalist pursuits. They are taking your free labor to support their organization. In addition, they make individuals feel guilty if they are not committed to a project. In fact, you have to be on a karma yoga project to be a part of their organization. They say that a person has a set of behavioral patterns and to change their patterns, they need to do the task that challenges their ego and limited skillset in order to grow and learn, which is working extended hours for a startup project, "Bodhiwoods Workdays," or something related to building their cult.

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Posted byu/[deleted]6 months ago

My friend shared this article with me and I thought it was really interesting.
It talks about "demonic" teachers who pretend to be enlightened, encourages things that are against the eightfold path, and use illusions to convince people it's the dharma, then everyone goes to jail in the end haha.

It also mentions how in Buddhist tradition great teachers never claim to be enlightened, seeking instead to gain students through the value of dharma itself and how demonic teachers either spread the word that they're enlightened or allow their students to do so in order to grow their student base.

" As a glaring sign of having great egos and craving to gather attention and followers, false teachers might claim to be ‘supreme’ masters or ‘true’ Buddhas, or even manifestations of Arhats and Bodhisattvas."
Samvara has publicly claimed to be enlightened and said that he was a great bodhisattva in his last life.

This section really jumped out at me too.

" False teachers’ so-called supernormal powers (and special experiences) are usually hearsay, cannot be objectively proven, or can be analysed and disclosed to be sleight-of-hand tricks or psychological mind games. If they often manifest ‘true’ powers, all the more should they be stayed away from, as again, the Buddha taught that only the Dharma should be used to attract followers. Refusal to abide by fully enlightened advice of the Buddha means they cannot be enlightened. Faith in teachers only due to their ‘supernormal’ powers or fame is simply blind faith; not rooted safely in the Dharma. "

Samvara's "powers" definitely don't stand up to scrutiny.

https://dharmaprotectionfellowship.wordpress.com/2018/01/01/buddhas-warnings-against-demonic-teachers/

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Posted by7 months ago
Heartwarming

I'm sharing Cannedtuna's experience with Buddhadojo and Geoff Malone.

From the article:

I believe Samvara capitalized upon the naïveté and unwavering trust of his students to explain away his behaviors as it was convenient to him while at the same time preaching about the importance of ‘right action’ and selflessness to everyone around him and extracting increasing amounts of money and time commitments from them. Whatever altruistic and loving motives he originally had, are offset by the reality that he is ultimately operating an enlightenment hustle, and is both a hypocrite and a bullshit artist that will do whatever he needs to do to retain and build recurring revenue through unreasonably high student tuition that is disproportionate to actual value delivered.


Be careful Samvara/ Geoff Malone is a swindler and wouldn't hesitate to pick your pockets when you're knocked down.

Walking away from the Buddha Dojo, Awakened Mind cult led by Samvara Geoff Malone | Medium | by Cannedtuna | Medium

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This is a page for ex-buddha dojo (sfawakenedmind) members to share experiences and grievances from their "sangha" days. It is also a place to seek support and ask questions. Leaving a cult is traumatizing in its own way and you are not alone. Please be careful with identifiable information. Consider using a new account. ================================ Some keyword stuffing to improve search results: Geoff Malone / Samvara / Mystic Scuba / Enlightenment Workbook / Rama / Frederick Lenz
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