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Hello Reddit,

I've recently accepted a job offer now that I have graduated uni that will be relocating me to the other side of the United States. Back at home, I have an older cat (~12 y/o) that I have been only able to see during my trips back home since I have been living with roommates that neither wanted animals in the house and in locations that were not cat friendly. I plan on moving into a studio or 1 bed apartment in my destination city.

The issue I run into is that my cat has been living with my parents and dog (which was added to the family 1-2 years later) and has spent most of his life in a rather decent sized house (multi bed/bath). With all of the beings around the house, he's never really by himself with the dog around. I will be living by myself and be commuting into work 3 days a week for 8+ hours a day and then go out from time to time for various necessities or events. Not only would he be subjected to a new, much smaller environment, he would be by himself for extended periods of time on an almost daily basis.

My folks want him out of the house to come live with me. I would obviously love to have him as I care more for that angry ball of fur than a lot of other things in life, but I have these worries that all the new stresses, new environment, and greatly decreased amount of living being interaction will quite frankly tremendously decrease his life and/or make him miserable in the process as I understand that cats despise change.

I'm so torn about what to do.

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