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21 points · 2 hours ago

This is an unhealthy thread. I don’t think it’s good to invite people to commiserate with you that they don’t look like a celebrity. Your feelings are valid and it really sucks to feel not good about yourself, but you are a blonde haired blue-eyed big titty woman, you’re hitting a lot of society’s beauty standards. Idk if that makes you feel any better tho!

3 points · 1 hour ago

that’s what makes this thread fun.. yeah, we’re all supposed to love ourselves and never wish we looked different, never compare ourselves, etc… but sometimes we just want to talk about who we wished we look like and what we don’t like about ourselves 🤷‍♀️ i don’t think it’s unhealthy, i think it’s just real life.

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1 point · 1 hour ago

It can be unhealthy for some people, not all. Your opinion is definitely valid!

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1 point · 1 hour ago

I think they all look nice my favorite is the ring finger or the thumb. I think berry colors look nice on your skin tone😊

Op1 point · 5 hours ago

Right? I’m so tempted to keep this as is but I’m going to meet my bf parents tomorrow for a fairly formal ish meeting so I’m leaning towards to the middle finger I think.

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1 point · 1 hour ago

I think all the colors would be appropriate for a formal-ish occasion. Maybe the pinky finger is a little bit bright tho!

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7 points · 2 hours ago

I think that North mainly takes after Kim. Saint is Kanye.

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0 points · 2 hours ago

I am not commenting on what type of person she is I am stating facts about fillers.

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8 points · 2 hours ago

I mean just the way you worded it sounds really dehumanizing to be. “Will it recover or just be a saggy mess.” You are talking about someone’s body/skin like it’s an object.

She is trying to correct a mistake she made when she was young, it might result in sagging skin. Having sagging skin does not make somebody a “saggy mess”, that’s a really awful way to describe a human being.

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1 point · 3 hours ago

I guess communication is key, unless you're too high to string a sentence together.

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1 point · 2 hours ago

Sometimes when you’re high you can get really inside your own head and think somebody is judging you just by a facial expression.

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11 points · 3 hours ago

ESH he should not criticize of what you are eating, especially knowing you are coming out of an ED. You should not be criticizing what he is eating… seem like he might have an ED, but the way to talk to him about that would be coming from a place of help, not teasing…. And YOU should know that coming out of an ED

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2 points · 2 hours ago

This!! The friend’s comment was uncalled for but it can really indicate that he might be in the midst of developing issues himself.

3 points · 3 hours ago

The thing is that no metabolism is able to burn 4500 daily, which is what OP’s friend says his diet is.

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1 point · 2 hours ago

People can miscount their calories. It could be a combination of inaccurately tracking calories and a metabolism or a thyroid issue or a health problem. Unless OP is with his friend all day he doesn’t know how his friend truly eats.

Just because OP has been thinner than his friend doesn’t make him an expert on somebody else’s body.

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204 points · 5 hours ago
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It isn’t being a pedant, the reason being called a female is insulting is because it’s an adjective for humans and a noun for animals, so when it’s used as a noun for humans it’s dehumanizing. If it’s used correctly as an adjective it doesn’t have any connection with animals, so there’s no dehumanizing connotation. It may be moving in the general direction where people start avoiding it as an adjective bc it’s becoming taboo (case in point your comment lol) but there’s no other adjective for “female” in English, and it’s a little extreme imo to label its use as an adjective as sexist when we lack an alternative form.

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10 points · 3 hours ago

Thank you! I feel like some people have learned to take that word as an insult because other people told them it was insulting. Rather than realizing the context in which it might be disrespectful, & context in when it is appropriate.

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-4 points · 3 hours ago

Honestly I think more who Kendall is as a person. Bad bunny’s success is really hitting milestones and breaking records as a Latino artist.

And Kendall Jenner appropriates and exploits Latinos with her 818 brand. So I can understand some saltiness.

But in the end bad bunny thinks with his pinga & Kendall is hot.

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