Posts about Adoptions
You wouldn't believe the condescending threat I got from a mod there. They REALLY don't like me saying "womb-wet."
See, the mods over there are tired of dealing with complaints about me, so they told me to only speak nicely about adoption. And only about MY adoption, and no one else's.
They acknowledge that every word I say there is true, but it upsets the sweet adopters, and it's too much for them to deal with.
Not a word of acknowledgement about all the adoptees I've helped with searches or the Primal Wound or any of that. Just "shut up and use your inside voice."
What a fucking circle-jerk of adopters and fogged adoptees.
UPDATE -- now my ban is permanent. LOL, I just got re-homed out of r/adoption.
I wanted to warn adoptees that r/Adoption is not a safe space for us. It looks like the mods there are actively hunting down "angry adoptees" and silencing us.
Since I'm permanently banned at r/Adoption and can't post and discuss it there, I wanted to share the message I sent the r/Adoption mods today.
Here's what I sent:
So why am I banned now? I got a three-day ban for reasons, which was then made permanent without explanation. And the person who banned me (who I really liked) is now "user not found". So I got permanently banned by someone who then banned themselves?
u/campbell317704, you specifically called me out for saying "womb-wet." Your pre-written rebuke of me was formatted with links and read like it had been approved by a committee, but did you ever check to see if I had actually said "womb-wet"?
No, you didn't. Because in the past when I was asked to stop saying that, I STOPPED SAYING IT. I complained, and bitched, and responded to other people saying it, but I DID NOT SAY IT ANYMORE.
You put plenty of other links in your rebuke, so why not link my "womb-wet" comments? Because you can't.
I feel like I have been unfairly targeted and harrassed. You had a mission to smack down "angry adoptees" and I was the obvious target. You've hounded me and nit-picked every fucking word I say.
I know you don't like to hear it, but "angry adoptees" are a significant and vocal part of the "triad" (puke) and you are consistently censoring and silencing us.
Because I can't even see the mod list anymore, I don't know who the adopted mods are, but whoever they are, they aren't representing adoptees. Hell, I think you should have an "angry adoptee" among the moderators to represent a significant part of the community.
Instead of accepting that some adoptees are "angry," you scold and smackdown and tell us to use our inside voice. Boy does that sound familiar to an adoptee.
You've let this sub become unbalanced in favor of adopters, to the point you actively hunted me down and banned me for something I didn't even say.
What the fuck? You should be ashamed of yourselves.
