I (25M) may end relationship over sex with (23F) -- Part 2.

malsan_z8 · 2022-09-29T21:09:08+00:00

Edit to add: This is @ OP

She’s already refusing to accept that it will do any help. You know the saying, people will only change if they want to. You can blame trauma (and reasonably without using as excuse) all you want, but it’s up to you to walk through it and work it out at some point.

You deserve someone who will actually want to work through that trauma for them first, and for you. To me, it sort of sounds like she just doesn’t want sex as a preference (which is ok), and blames it on the past (not ok). Or, she’s not opening up to you about what has happened in the relationship to cause her to not do it.

Either way, this relationship might not be for you. Consider what happiness looks like for you

malsan_z8 · 2022-09-29T17:12:34+00:00

For me it’d have to be pistachio lassi!

malsan_z8 · 2022-09-27T22:33:13+00:00

By that degree, everything is meaningless. Why drink coffee? You’ll be tired again. Why walk outside? You’ll just want to go inside again. Why cook? You’ll have to do it again later anyways right? No point

malsan_z8 · 2022-09-27T00:00:51+00:00

That boi ain’t right

malsan_z8 · 2022-09-26T23:49:59+00:00

Deep dish at tortorices pizza, get caramelized crust and your favorite toppings. All other deep dish does not compare, commercial and pequads. This place does it better than them all.

Pair it off with an off-color brewery beer

malsan_z8 · 2022-09-26T20:56:06+00:00

Hey this came in handy for lots of random moments where I’d use it then use a glider right after

malsan_z8 · 2022-09-26T16:38:01+00:00

Everyone enjoys different things. For my partner and I, we appreciate how many different kinds of porn and toys and things there are - it’s like food for us, we love to try it and they all have their good and bad things.

If he chooses porn over you, that’s the problem. If not, it’s ok to just have a preference thing. But to your same argument, would you rather him looking at real porn of other women or something?

Again, if you have this preference, that’s completely ok. But if you want to stay together, gotta reach a middle ground. Some women or men detest porn and don’t want that in a partner, and that’s ok, it’s their preference. It’s just a real issue if he chooses that over you

malsan_z8 · 2022-09-26T14:19:07+00:00

Yeah this is the best reply, straight to the point. It sort of seems a little more about his consent now. Or, even if you keep telling him during the fact, maybe he’s a little anxious that you’re just saying that because you’ve drank, so he’s not completely sure if it’s the truth.

Keep in mind, there’s likely plenty of stories where this happens and a breakup or turmoil occurs because the partner wakes up and feels disgusted, even when they themselves were pushing for it. He might just be doing his best to really gauge the situation. Talk to him when sober, give reassurance, and really listen.

Cheers

malsan_z8 · 2022-09-21T18:04:00+00:00

And the sex worker is likely to do more regular STD testing than the random tinder hookup. If I was playing the same game as OP, which scenario is “dirtier” then?

For the record, I believe sex work is still work and women can do what they want with their bodies. Just pointing out the hypocrisy

malsan_z8 · 2022-09-21T13:51:27+00:00

The Sadness.

I found it on moviejoy since it’s an international movie (as someone in the US). Really fucked up

malsan_z8 · 2022-09-20T20:23:11+00:00

Actually I like that - mimic level 24 loot is a legacy raid piece for your character, scaled appropriately.

Great way to give new players that really cool mog and possibilities right out the gate

malsan_z8 · 2022-09-20T20:11:47+00:00

Uteruception

malsan_z8 · 2022-09-20T16:00:06+00:00

Yeah if she can’t see what she could do better, and also do her best to support you for 1 night without making it completely about her, then she has some growing up to do. You were honest about what you thought about the situation and also told her the importance of this dinner way ahead of time. You’re doing great in your career but it’s been about her the whole time, when it should be about both of you working as a team and trying to be better every day. This is not the support you need. Pride and ego are death for relationships

malsan_z8 · 2022-09-20T14:48:22+00:00

I’ve never used healbot, so I can’t give a good comparison of the two. Vuhdo does take a little time to start up but you can save settings / layouts for each character and load it if it doesn’t automatically. There seems to be VuhDo tutorials on YouTube, so you can try those.

Forgot to mention it’s also nice for even DPS or tank spec too to quickly use utility/healing for others or self ^{^}

malsan_z8 · 2022-09-20T04:12:13+00:00

Same here actually. Seriously the best for healing as a healer main

malsan_z8 · 2022-09-20T04:11:20+00:00

Hello friend! I recommend the VuhDo addon. It allows you to mouse over and use your clicks or scrolls as a keybind. So you can heal without targeting anyone even. It also shows colors or indication if a de buff is active on someone that you can dispel. Also your heal over time spells. The addon gives additional health bar frames to use and to just mouse over, so you can hide the standard wow player frames.

Example, I main resto shaman and when I mouse over on someone in my raid or party, I can just use scroll up on someone’s little health frame and it casts Riptide on them. My right click is chain heal.

Highly recommend and I’m sure there’s guides if you need help setting it up. Cheers and have fun healing - it’s the best!

malsan_z8 · 2022-09-19T19:45:42+00:00

This is really good! Always appreciate the rare HoTs cosplays - r/heroesofthestorm may also really like this, although not sure of posting rules there at the moment

malsan_z8 · 2022-09-14T21:50:52+00:00

If we get this, potential opportunity to give players the deathwing mount again. But I personally don’t want cata classic

malsan_z8 · 2022-09-14T17:20:42+00:00

Ya but we were one of many. A group of adventurers killed these things. Now it’s all credited to the one, the only

malsan_z8 · 2022-09-07T21:58:41+00:00

Double upvote for troll female. Feels like I’m the only one that uses that model even on a high pop server haha

malsan_z8 · 2022-09-07T17:57:01+00:00

And for the class mount / title easy progression

malsan_z8 · 2022-09-07T17:55:53+00:00

Some people just want to watch the world burn

malsan_z8 · 2022-09-06T23:03:07+00:00

anything happening that’s in my vicinity that may very well not be related to any part of my existence ever. Me: “sorry”

malsan_z8 · 2022-09-06T22:58:24+00:00

You wanna know what is negotiable?

malsan_z8 · 2022-09-06T21:29:56+00:00

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