Similar to the OP, I knew it was over when my mum had suddenly died. I was at my parents house just for a few hours trying to get my mother’s affairs in order when my then fiancé whined and cried asking “when are you coming back?!?”.
Dude, I had been gone for ~3 hours!! To take care of my dead mum’s shit and you’re whining about me coming home?!? You didn’t even come down here to help or support me when I’ve been by your side supporting you through every little thing?!?
All you can think about is yourself and your little dick while I’m picking out a fucking dress to bury my mother in and how I’m going to pay her six figure credit card debt before they take the house?!? GTFOH!
These were all the things I didn’t say to him, but I wanted to. I just came back home, told him we were done, packed up my shit and left. He couldn’t understand why I was leaving him. He was all shocked Pikachu face when I handed him the news. Fucking clown ass narc! 🙄🤡🤦♀️
Good for you!!!!
I went to college after having my two oldest kids. The boys were 6 and 4. I needed to study for midterms the next day and the ex said “the world doesn’t end just because you have midterms” in response to me asking him to watch them for a couple of hours before dinner so I could study. Then the next day instead of coming home after work to watch them while I went to my exams, he went to a bar and never contacted me at all (this was before cellphones) so I had to take them to college with me and have them sit quietly with their gameboy colors in two empty desks while my whole class took our exams.
I should’ve left then. Instead I wasted 20 more years with him and the toxicity played a big part in my boys becoming addicts and my daughter now being in an abusive relationship she refuses to see as being as bad as it is, because to her it’s normal.
I caused that by my inaction. Literally. I did that.
Don’t do that. You’re all worth so much more.
I am so sorry this was your experience. Thank you for taking the time to share the hard lessons learned. It is something I will think about
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Sheesh wtf. My parents have said things that lean that way - along the lines of "white people are dying out, need to keep having kids to preserve ourselves" etc. I just like wtf? Who gaf about interracial relationships, if future generations are more blended it doesn't matter in the slightest imo, what the world needs is just more good people, of whatever background, not racial purity. What a stupid thing to be hung up on.
Diversity is beneficial for all populations. The opposite is inbreeding. This sort of logic is flat out racist and makes no biological sense
This is how most of the oldest recorded burials were done. People in a fetal position in a hole in the ground.
Wow!
When? I’m in
Very nice
So you didn't know he was politically right leaning before you dated him? If that's the case that's totally different because he put on a facade. But otherwise, if you knew before he showed his true colors, you still decided to be with someone who you knew had immoral beliefs.
At the time I really didn’t understand politics and it wasn’t a big topic of discussion. I had never voted and hated politicians on both side of the aisle. Once I educated myself I understood better.
Depends if you vote republican. Sacrificing the lives of rape victims to have less government isn't good. If someone was willing to potentially trade your life would you date them?
They all vote with the understanding it’ll never happen to them
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He doesn't care your quips or digs because at the end of the day, he still gets to use your body like an object for free. I don't understand why you subject yourself to this. We all die one day. You could die tomorrow. Do you want to look back and think this was your life?
Amen sis
Tell this man to teach other men that this should be standard.
Tell this man to teach other men. All the other men please.