I have a job to support my family. I’m in the midst of a divorce and the original ruling was she get more parenting time than me (by a lot), and is free to move to another state - only because “she’s the primary caregiver.” We did a full eval and that was the only finding. Even went on and on about how close I am with my son. How good of a parent I am, and how attached he is to me. “But this difficult decision is made easier knowing how much time he has spent with his mother.”

The courts see you as a non-parent if you work. Moral of the story - men, require your wives to work. Or work much, much less. Or don’t ever marry. Take your pick.