Them.
- A bite-sized look at the ups and downs of the week ahead.
- Queer sex experts answered what is BDSM and all of our other common questions surrounding the sexual umbrella term.
- It’s time to sprint forward.
- A bite-sized look at the ups and downs of the week ahead.
- Let’s head to the seaside together and gaze at the stars.
- Shame and stigma can be hard to overcome when you’re queer. For many, sex workers have become key to working through it.
- A bite-sized look at the ups and downs of the week ahead.
- Submit your questions on queer love, life advice, and general messiness to Them columnist María Saldana.
- The agency is now allowing an injection method that uses 1/5th of the previous dose.
- A bite-sized look at the ups and downs of the week ahead.
- A bite-sized look at the ups and downs of the week ahead.
- And another person, though not cured, is in full remission.
- There is no such thing as collective liberation in an inaccessible world.
- Activists are calling for more research and government support to address troubling health disparities.
- From how to use them to their surprising history, here are answers to your most common questions about gender-neutral pronouns.
- As the virus' spread continues, vaccine demand is outstripping supply in much of the U.S.
- A bite-sized look at the ups and downs of the week ahead.
- We’re due for a welcome break from the emotions of Cancer season.
- There’s plenty to be absolutely pissed about this year. What are you going to do about it?
- I’ve been spending and spending but for some reason I’m still not feeling better.
- A bite-sized look at the ups and downs of the week ahead.
- In this episode of InQueery, intersex advocate and beloved them. video producer Maria Tridas breaks down the origins of the term "intersex."
- Marred by disinformation, slander, and misunderstanding, the prevention pill has faced some of the same societal ills that fuel the HIV epidemic.
- One-time donations and attending reactionary events won't cut it. Organizers say true allyship is about being consistent.
- Though anyone can contract monkeypox, men who have sex with men are disproportionately affected. Limited vaccines are available.
- From triads to relationship anarchists to polycules, the spectrum of queer polyamory is infinite.
- From dunking your head in water to yoga, these expert recommendations can help calm you when you need it most.
- What do I wear? Do I have to be out to celebrate? Do I have to drink at Pride? And other questions, answered.
- From harm reduction tools like drug testing strips to brushing up on your protest safety tips, you can never be too careful before attending Pride events.
- The state is taking transphobia to new extremes.
- Students started asking for the class in 2019.
- Immerse yourself in trans community this Pride.
- Harm reduction specialists explain the effects, risks, and least harmful use of nitrous oxide.
- Correlation is not causation.
- Social anxiety can make community building and queer nightlife feel overwhelming. Here are some tips to help.
- Feeling horny but can’t see your partner IRL? Two sexperts told us exactly how to sext with success.
- Harm reduction specialists told us what these tiny bottles contain – and what to be wary of when using them.
- Sapphics explained what the gender-expansive love means to them.
- Pose actress Angelica Ross breaks down the history and evolution of the term "transgender."
- From cozy pillows to stink-eliminating candles to THC pop rocks, there's something for every queer weed lover on this list.
- Queer sex experts explained what top, bottom, vers mean in the bedroom.
- Sex ed often leaves LGBTQ+ people behind. These TikTokers are taking matters into their own hands.
- A pansexual sex counselor shares what it means to love people of all genders and beyond.
- While keeping my transness a secret kept me safe, sharing my truth helped me see I was so much more than just a woman.
- Here's everything you need to know about the vast and wonderful ace spectrum.
- Spiritual and mental health experts explain why queer people are burnt out, and what we can do about it.
- These stories about compassion, heartbreak, and staying true to yourself will move you.
- We're queer. We get to write our own rules. Consensual intimacy among friends can be one of them.
- Knowing your boundaries ahead of time can save you stress down the road.
- Surviving breast cancer as a gender-nonconforming person of color brought me a unique kind of struggle — and surprising opportunities.
- These harm reduction basics will make you a more responsible and educated drug user.
- People often assume I’m uber-masculine just because I’m a Dom. There's way more to me underneath the leather.
- As a gay, Black dancer living with HIV, being single during the pandemic helped me realize I was treating myself as a sexual object.
- “Even if ‘I’m neutral about my body!’ doesn’t seem like something to shout from the rooftops, that’s actually kind of the point: Body neutrality meets me where I am.”
- My eating disorder was the only thing that gave me control over my appearance, until I realized I was losing myself.
- Sex therapists and erotica authors share their best tips for navigating gender dysphoria in the bedroom.
- If we call everything queer, then nothing will be.
- Not everyone goes by solely she/her, he/him, or they/them. We spoke to 10 people who use varied pronouns about their identities and how to respect them.
- A complete guide to how to start reading erotica, writing erotic short stories, and discover the best that queer erotica has to offer.
- Here’s how to unplug, unwind, set boundaries, and stay healthy as we fight systemic racism and police brutality.
- Here are some tips on how to participate responsibly, whether or not you’re on the front line.
- From vibrators to BDSM gear, these are the best sex toys for LGBTQ+ people of all stripes.
- Through massage, breathwork, bodily awareness, and more, these techniques will help you decompress and unwind during these stressful times.
- Who is it safe to have sex with during the pandemic? How can I use camming, sex toys, and more to keep things interesting? And when will it be safe to resume a normal sex life?
- Through interviews with over a dozen expert queer healers — including traditional psychologists, sex therapists, personal trainers, reiki masters and hypnotists — we’ve compiled a guide for self-care during these scary times.
- Dating while intersex can be hard, with partners prone to misunderstand your body. My experiences have taught me how to accept my differences.
- An inside look at the origins of the term "Two-Spirit," and the centuries of colonial violence and prejudice Two-Spirit people have faced.
COMMUNITY
CULTURE
WHAT TO READ AND STREAM
Our favorite LGBTQ+ literature, music, and entertainment right now.
- Listen to Demi Lovato, San Cha, Fusilier, and more artists on our monthly queer playlist.
- My Government Means to Kill Me follows one teenager’s path through the crisis.
- The prolific author’s new memoir Knocking Myself Up details a unique childbirth journey.
- Dr. Steven Thrasher’s genre-defying debut explores shame, stigma, and sickness.
- Our playlist highlights the best LGBTQ+ music released this month.
- From Margarita with a Straw to the new Queer as Folk, some creators are finally getting it right.
- Nicole Pasulka’s How You Get Famous traces the dramatic expansion of a once-underground form.
- Julia Armfield’s Our Wives Under the Sea follows a deep-sea trip gone horribly wrong.
- Chris Belcher’s memoir Pretty Baby traces her journey from West Virginia to the dungeon.
- From nihilistic road trips to lesbian vengeance, this list has everything.
- Our playlist highlights the best LGBTQ+ music released this month.
- If you liked Fire Island, you'll love this list.
- From a film about trans rage to one that honors lesbian pleasure, these shorts highlight the weird, wonderful fringes of queer filmmaking.
- Our playlist highlights the best LGBTQ+ music released this month.
- Lesbian screwball comedies, gay dramas, trans rom-coms, and so much more.
- From Spa Night to Mishima, these queer films are May favorites.
- Our playlist highlights the best LGBTQ+ music released this month.
- From Smiley Face to Priscilla, Queen of the Desert, get hazy with a queer classic.
- We’re here to help you find your next favorite film.
- Our playlist highlights the best LGBTQ+ music released this month.
- Eloghosa Osunde’s debut novel showcases queer outcasts navigating Nigerian life.
- There wasn’t much queer representation in the blockbusters of our youth but we used our imaginations anyway.
- A fierce debut tells the story of two Taiwanese American women whose lives and desires are intertwined.
- Skip the Oscar bait and watch these instead.
- Plus, a dark-pop gem from Atlanta-based experimentalist Edge Slayer.
- Plus, a collection of ‘80s covers from Angel Olsen.
- Plus, an ode to carrying on from indie rock artist Mini Trees.
- Plus, a compilation of club bangers from the New Orleans-based DJ collective Trax Only.
- Known for playing both male and female roles, Charlotte Cushman lived beyond gender and sexual norms at a time when it was far from common. This new historical biography resurrects her remarkable life.
- In her new novel, Vagablonde, the author writes about a “grotesque” woman, inviting us to interrogate her behavior.