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I am not okay by dafaerie in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]dafaerie[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

We aren't together anymore. I really hope he'll get whats coming to him.

I'm constantly getting stalked and harassed by another user and its affecting me by HotWheelsVroom in selfharm

[–]dafaerie 36 points37 points  (0 children)

You don't. In order for the chance of the stalker not finding you to be higher, you leave everything behind and start anew

How to respond to claims that women only want “alpha males” by EnderofLays in AskFeminists

[–]dafaerie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Surely you're not talking about yourself, correct?" That's worked for me before. They either lie and say they are or say "when was I talking about myself?" therefore outing themselves as a beta.

I'm constantly getting stalked and harassed by another user and its affecting me by HotWheelsVroom in selfharm

[–]dafaerie 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Best thing to do now is make another account. If you talk to anyone on reddit, let them know you're making a new account, tell them the name of the new account, and go on from there. I know it's a huge decision and it's uncomfortable, but speaking as someone who has also been stalked and harassed, if they're just going to keep making new accounts, it's time to make your own and transfer everything. Don't bring up the fact you have a stalker on your new account. Have a username that isn't close to the one you are using right now.

What is it with people simping for underage anime characters? by dafaerie in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]dafaerie[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm not This is just a common occurrence I've witnessed on several occasions over the years. I wouldn't spend time going in depth purposefully watching adults be sexually attracted to underage anime characters.

What is it with people simping for underage anime characters? by dafaerie in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]dafaerie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I meant simping as in a sexual term I've personally never heard of it in any other context

My son has been watching violent pornography by [deleted] in Advice

[–]dafaerie 14 points15 points  (0 children)

If he does get put in a facility, warn them about everything. Do not let out a single detail. Tell whoever is doing the intake to let the nurses know to check for cheeking medication every single time he takes it.

My son has been watching violent pornography by [deleted] in Advice

[–]dafaerie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in a relationship with someone who watched pornography like that and it was awful to say the least. I'm 17, he's currently 16. Now is not the time for gentle parenting. I personally would put in more restrictions with internet access. Get one of those wifi things that you can turn off with your phone maybe? If he gets physical with your sister, threaten to call the cops. If he doesn't stop when you threaten, call them. He can be charged with domestic abuse I believe depending on the severity of everything. At least that's what it's like where I live. If he's ever put on medication, make him open his mouth after he takes it. Tell him to lift his tongue and stretch open his cheeks to check if he's faking taking it.

Do whatever you can think of. Because if he's acting like this now, who knows what he'll be doing as an adult. But as for now, you are the adult. Stand your ground. Do not let him make rules for you.

I need help! I'm 15 and still play with toys! am I too old? by spectraexe666 in Advice

[–]dafaerie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm almost 18 and I have a bed full of stuffies and a shelf full of dolls You're alright! Nobody is too old for toys!

I’m turning 18 in a few months and I have no clue what to do by PeeZeeMurphy in Advice

[–]dafaerie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the same boat as you are. I'm gonna be 18 in November. Honestly, just take it as it comes. Everyone figures it out eventually!

Me_irl by Leoopro in meirl

[–]dafaerie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember when I was in 5th grade I took common core. My mom was fuckin genius in math and she was crying so hard with me lmao

Selfharm is an addiction, I wont “stop for you🥺” by Depressed_and-gay in selfharm

[–]dafaerie 147 points148 points  (0 children)

When someone says that to me I'll literally just end up self harming out of spite

13 and pregnant by 6KidsPerGrave in Advice

[–]dafaerie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love, the safest option is to get an abortion. I know it's against your religion but your health comes first always. You're very young and a lot of people are worried about you.

heheheheh by RjSkitchie in perfectlycutscreams

[–]dafaerie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually nah you can survive three minutes with no air. It's the weight that I'm worried about.

heheheheh by RjSkitchie in perfectlycutscreams

[–]dafaerie 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure the person on the bottom is dead