Elyse Walters
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over 2 years ago
Meet the Galvin family......
THIS IS A MIND BLOWING STORY!!!!
FASCINATING - UNBELIEVABLE-
RIVETING-
INFORMATIVE-
HEARTBREAKING!
This is one of those non-fiction books that often reads like fiction. It’s incredibly intimate....in details, descriptions, character development, sto Meet the Galvin family......
THIS IS A MIND BLOWING STORY!!!!
FASCINATING - UNBELIEVABLE-
RIVETING-
INFORMATIVE-
HEARTBREAKING!
This is one of those non-fiction books that often reads like fiction. It’s incredibly intimate....in details, descriptions, character development, storytelling, and facts.
It just seems so inconceivable that ‘this much’ mental illness could hit one nuclear family!
By the end of this book - I felt I knew each of the fourteen family members well - by name, their interests, struggles, and personal temperaments.
We also get an experience of the family-interacting- competitive-dynamics.
The most basic every day routines - for a family of 14:
from eating, to grocery shopping, cooking, household chores, clothes washing, folding of diapers, studying, piano lessons, educational and cultural aspirations, sports, other friends, neighbors, socializing, work, the parents as individuals and as a couple, and the siblings -(constant companions), who were and were not diagnosed with any mental illness, made this book unputdownable.
Both family and medical history was examined extensively.
Something was very wrong.....
with the first born son.... then... the next....
next..next...and next...
I kept thinking —“Oh my god, I’d die if I was the mother of this family”
— so much tragedy...blame? shame?... guilt....suffering...
.....’mother-monster’ accusations?/! Heaven help me!!
Yikes... and why so many children? After 10 boys, came 2 girls followed.
Mom/Mimi was 40 years old when her last child was born.
Even though the girls weren’t diagnosed with mental illness it was painful to read their stories as well.
The house in Hidden Valley in Colorado Springs was vividly described...a 1960s home with large pine trees surrounding .... with lots of room for playing football, kickball, Simon-Says, etc.
Surreal- reading!!!
...Interesting kids-
...parents...
...growing up-years (other families nearby had eight kids)...
...moving along-years
...breakdowns, fights
...parties,
...Rock ‘n’ roll music,
...church,
...military service,
...fundraisers,
.. public relation talks,
...the Vietnam war era, ...troubled fantasy thoughts
...suicide attempts
... education, college, degrees, marriage, divorces
...frightening behaviors, ...emotional devastation,
... manipulations within the family
... avoidance of the family, anger and self-care needs
...brutal institutions,
...shock therapy, treatments and testings,
... mental health stigmas,
...loss, death, memorial services, more births...
love.....
...DSM-American psychiatric association understanding.
...two different doctors making different studies.
The resilience of this family was as extraordinary as the horrors.
I was as transfixed by the science study and the doctors who studied schizophrenia ( agreed and disagreed), the research testing, analyzing, ongoing studies today, with equally as much interest as much as I was taking in my own experience of each of the family members.
Twelve children: six diagnosed with schizophrenia/ and or Bipolar disorder.
Nature? or Nurture?
Incredible -extraordinary -thought-provoking - -phenomenally researched-addictive page turning -educational -personal story.....
Written with upmost empathy and compassion.
‘Not’ a book I’d give to mom for Mother’s Day...
but....
highly readable and **recommendable** ...more
THIS IS A MIND BLOWING STORY!!!!
FASCINATING - UNBELIEVABLE-
RIVETING-
INFORMATIVE-
HEARTBREAKING!
This is one of those non-fiction books that often reads like fiction. It’s incredibly intimate....in details, descriptions, character development, sto Meet the Galvin family......
THIS IS A MIND BLOWING STORY!!!!
FASCINATING - UNBELIEVABLE-
RIVETING-
INFORMATIVE-
HEARTBREAKING!
This is one of those non-fiction books that often reads like fiction. It’s incredibly intimate....in details, descriptions, character development, storytelling, and facts.
It just seems so inconceivable that ‘this much’ mental illness could hit one nuclear family!
By the end of this book - I felt I knew each of the fourteen family members well - by name, their interests, struggles, and personal temperaments.
We also get an experience of the family-interacting- competitive-dynamics.
The most basic every day routines - for a family of 14:
from eating, to grocery shopping, cooking, household chores, clothes washing, folding of diapers, studying, piano lessons, educational and cultural aspirations, sports, other friends, neighbors, socializing, work, the parents as individuals and as a couple, and the siblings -(constant companions), who were and were not diagnosed with any mental illness, made this book unputdownable.
Both family and medical history was examined extensively.
Something was very wrong.....
with the first born son.... then... the next....
next..next...and next...
I kept thinking —“Oh my god, I’d die if I was the mother of this family”
— so much tragedy...blame? shame?... guilt....suffering...
.....’mother-monster’ accusations?/! Heaven help me!!
Yikes... and why so many children? After 10 boys, came 2 girls followed.
Mom/Mimi was 40 years old when her last child was born.
Even though the girls weren’t diagnosed with mental illness it was painful to read their stories as well.
The house in Hidden Valley in Colorado Springs was vividly described...a 1960s home with large pine trees surrounding .... with lots of room for playing football, kickball, Simon-Says, etc.
Surreal- reading!!!
...Interesting kids-
...parents...
...growing up-years (other families nearby had eight kids)...
...moving along-years
...breakdowns, fights
...parties,
...Rock ‘n’ roll music,
...church,
...military service,
...fundraisers,
.. public relation talks,
...the Vietnam war era, ...troubled fantasy thoughts
...suicide attempts
... education, college, degrees, marriage, divorces
...frightening behaviors, ...emotional devastation,
... manipulations within the family
... avoidance of the family, anger and self-care needs
...brutal institutions,
...shock therapy, treatments and testings,
... mental health stigmas,
...loss, death, memorial services, more births...
love.....
...DSM-American psychiatric association understanding.
...two different doctors making different studies.
The resilience of this family was as extraordinary as the horrors.
I was as transfixed by the science study and the doctors who studied schizophrenia ( agreed and disagreed), the research testing, analyzing, ongoing studies today, with equally as much interest as much as I was taking in my own experience of each of the family members.
Twelve children: six diagnosed with schizophrenia/ and or Bipolar disorder.
Nature? or Nurture?
Incredible -extraordinary -thought-provoking - -phenomenally researched-addictive page turning -educational -personal story.....
Written with upmost empathy and compassion.
‘Not’ a book I’d give to mom for Mother’s Day...
but....
highly readable and **recommendable** ...more