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- Find out who gets the dubious honor of being Chipotle’s “¿Homo estás?” tweet.
- To quote Lana Del Rey, get ready for some summertime sadness.
- What do I wear? Do I have to be out to celebrate? Do I have to drink at Pride? And other questions, answered.
- From harm reduction tools like drug testing strips to brushing up on your protest safety tips, you can never be too careful before attending Pride events.
- The state is taking transphobia to new extremes.
- Students started asking for the class in 2019.
- Diana Taurasi is the GOAT, a.k.a. the biggest Gemini of All Time.
- Immerse yourself in trans community this Pride.
- Harm reduction specialists explain the effects, risks, and least harmful use of nitrous oxide.
- Correlation is not causation.
- Better things could be coming your way.
- Feeling horny but can’t see your partner IRL? Two sexperts told us exactly how to sext with success.
- Harm reduction specialists told us what these tiny bottles contain – and what to be wary of when using them.
- Sapphics explained what the gender-expansive love means to them.
- Pose actress Angelica Ross breaks down the history and evolution of the term "transgender."
- Strap in. The first two eclipses of the year are just around the corner.
- From cozy pillows to stink-eliminating candles to THC pop rocks, there's something for every queer weed lover on this list.
- Let’s partake in some gentle ganja stereotyping this 4/20.
- Queer sex experts explained what top, bottom, vers mean in the bedroom.
- Sex ed often leaves LGBTQ+ people behind. These TikTokers are taking matters into their own hands.
- A pansexual sex counselor shares what it means to love people of all genders and beyond.
- While keeping my transness a secret kept me safe, sharing my truth helped me see I was so much more than just a woman.
- Here's everything you need to know about the vast and wonderful ace spectrum.
- Happy astrological new year, fellow queers!
- These stories about compassion, heartbreak, and staying true to yourself will move you.
- Let the star of love and pleasure guide you in matters of the heart.
- If you’re going out with a Scorpio, good luck.
- These alcohol-free brands bring all the fun with none of the regrets.
- We're queer. We get to write our own rules. Consensual intimacy among friends can be one of them.
- Skip the lofty resolutions and follow these affirming guidelines from LGBTQ+ experts instead.
- It’s going to be a bumpy year but we can get through it together.
- Give the gift of pleasure.
- These tips will help you shut down negative comments, listen to your body, and stay sane.
- Transhealth Northampton wants to change primary care for its trans patients — and also for everyone else.
- Like so many queer people, I spent my formative years pining for lover after lover. That’s only natural — but breaking that cycle is easier said than done.
- Surviving breast cancer as a gender-nonconforming person of color brought me a unique kind of struggle — and surprising opportunities.
- These harm reduction basics will make you a more responsible and educated drug user.
- People often assume I’m uber-masculine just because I’m a Dom. There's way more to me underneath the leather.
- As a gay, Black dancer living with HIV, being single during the pandemic helped me realize I was treating myself as a sexual object.
- “Even if ‘I’m neutral about my body!’ doesn’t seem like something to shout from the rooftops, that’s actually kind of the point: Body neutrality meets me where I am.”
- My eating disorder was the only thing that gave me control over my appearance, until I realized I was losing myself.
- We asked our favorite queer sex workers, sex educators, and sex shop owners for tips and tricks to getting the big O.
- Sex therapists and erotica authors share their best tips for navigating gender dysphoria in the bedroom.
- If we call everything queer, then nothing will be.
- I don’t want to look at another screen for as long as I live. So shut up, set me up with your friends, and let us all make out. Okay!
- Not everyone goes by solely she/her, he/him, or they/them. We spoke to 10 people who use varied pronouns about their identities and how to respect them.
- A complete guide to how to start reading erotica, writing erotic short stories, and discover the best that queer erotica has to offer.
- Here are some tips on how to participate responsibly, whether or not you’re on the front line.
- From how to use them to their surprising history, here are answers to your most common questions about gender-neutral pronouns.
- From vibrators to BDSM gear, these are the best sex toys for LGBTQ+ people of all stripes.
- From ring lights to privacy to consent, sex workers and a therapist explain how to make camming feel intimate, safe, and sexy.
- Who is it safe to have sex with during the pandemic? How can I use camming, sex toys, and more to keep things interesting? And when will it be safe to resume a normal sex life?
- As LGBTQ+ health centers are shutting down nationwide, these virtual resource kits, phone hotlines, live streams, and webinars are vital for getting information and support.
- We asked sex educators and porn performers how masturbation can be a route to explore your queer identity, and how to subvert society's expectations around how to do it.
- From moisturizing oils to kinky toys to queer candles, here are queer-friendly gifts to get every sign in your life.
- Dating while intersex can be hard, with partners prone to misunderstand your body. My experiences have taught me how to accept my differences.
- A guide to questions I asked myself when I began to wonder if I was transfeminine — and questions you may ask yourself, too.
- An inside look at the origins of the term "Two-Spirit," and the centuries of colonial violence and prejudice Two-Spirit people have faced.
- In this episode of InQueery, intersex advocate and beloved them. video producer Maria Tridas breaks down the origins of the term "intersex."
COMMUNITY
CULTURE
WHAT TO READ AND STREAM
Our favorite LGBTQ+ literature, music, and entertainment right now.
- Take them to the beach — or your ex-girlfriend’s pool. We won’t judge.
- These 14 tracks channel the anger, frustration, and rebelliousness of the queer experience.
- “It’s 2022 and we’re still having this conversation."
- In a dystopian age, the kaiju has become a powerful symbol for LGBTQ+ wrath.
- Oh come, all ye faithful!
- They're just one new front in the conservative fight to dismantle LGBTQ+ freedom of expression.
- From nihilistic road trips to lesbian vengeance, this list has everything.
- Our playlist highlights the best LGBTQ+ music released this month.
- Oh, and his web-slinging outfit is serving Superhero Met Gala.
- It’s getting really hard to keep track of Disney’s stance on queer issues and whether the right or left hates them at any given moment.
- Revisiting Diablo Cody’s cult classic helped breathe life into Patricia Wants to Cuddle.
- If you liked Fire Island, you'll love this list.
- The competition is heating up as one queen is the first to cross the three star threshold.
- He also added that transitioning has “improved his life drastically.”
- Seven songs hand-picked by team Them for the dance floor and beyond.
- “I don’t know what I am. I love people.”
- Jules Ohman's debut novel asks what it means to be androgynous in the fashion world.
- The show’s creator, Michael R Jackson, also took home the Tony for Best Book of a Musical.
- The Stimulus Wreck author believes it’s time for honest money advice.
- Fall into the world of the show’s protagonist, an usher named Usher.
- The San Diego indie-pop band’s debut Remember What I Look Like is deeply relatable.
- The singer-songwriter’s new EP Shaking Hands With Elvis grapples with fame, loss, and grief.
- “If anything, I’ve grown a lot from the person who wrote that book.”
- David Santos Donaldson’s Greenland is a book within a book about English writer E.M. Forster’s relationship with Mohammed el-Adl.
- Ten years ago, a short novel blew up trans storytelling. But the book is more than just a legacy.
- “I want you to feel the horns, feel that piano, feel the strum of the guitar.”
- “We have always found light, hope, and joy even in the darkest of times.”
- Our playlist highlights the best LGBTQ+ music released this month.
- The screenwriter and producer behind the FX ballroom drama has more stories to tell.
- The acclaimed series halted production in March.