Posts about The Bachelor
There was a post today taking issue with strippers at bachelor parties bur they didn't take it far enough. It's not just worthy of judgement, it's worthy of break-up. It's cheating. Going to a stripclub is cheating, getting a stripper for your party is cheating.
The whole point of marriage is dedicating yourself to your partner and only your partner, starting it with some kind of pathetic last night as an unmarried person, looking at other bodies, that's appalling. That's disgusting. You're meant to be celebrating the fact you're finally making the bond with your loved one official, not disrespecting them and looking at other people.
The fact that many consider this normal is bizarre to me. People are absolutely revolting.
Now I cannot 100% confirm this but I overheard him talking about cheating. I don’t mean strip club lap dance kind of cheating but full on hanky-panky with a lady he met drinking.
Now that I know this information, and the wedding is less than 2 weeks from now I have no clue what to do.
If I tell:
• I save someone from being in a adulterous marriage
• Did the right thing
If I don’t tell:
• The wedding is ruined and many people will hate me
• Probably lose my brother forever
• Family could cut me off
• Depression spiral
I have no clue what to do. Now I’ve asked God to help me; and maybe He can bring it into light better. But does anyone have any advice? Anyone ever been in this dilemma?
Edit: I have vague written evidence too
Blowhards with an over inflated sense of self importance and ego ask me to take time out of my workday to inconvenience me by asking a series of generic questions. "SO, tell me about yourself". "Where do you see yourself in 5 years?"
I know I made it through the next stage when I accept the rose that is the next fucking video interview invitation.
Either you know what you are looking for or are just playing games and dismissing candidates by unconscious bias or other dumb rationale. 'Hey, we have a duty to the company to see what else is out there. We deserve the perfect candidate'.
Fine. SURE. You can do that as long as you can provide the perfect candidate with what they deserve. Meanwhile, I'm over here left to tap dance for a liveable wage and Perkbox benefits. Jesus fucking Christ.
Whatever happened to hiring for character and potential? Whatever happened to treating candidates with dignity and respect and not ghosting them after they devoted hours to your aimless interviews, tests, and half-assed 'competancy' tests?
Honestly, I thought I worked too hard in my life to be subjected to such inconsideration and disrespect.
In summation:
Recruiters/ HR professionals/idiots in charge of hiring, stop wasting my time. Also, lick my taint!
End of useless rant.
EDIT: I know how to answer these generic questions. If you think that adding your advice on how to answer these basic bitch questions is the main point of this rant, think again. My problem is the tired and played out system with not much to offer its potential workforce looking for miracle unicorns to magically solve their woes.
