1. a xenogender which reclaims the word “tumblr gender.” similar to trendergender, it was coined for people who are assumed to be faking being transgender for attention. it’s associated with gender nonconforming trans people, non-dysphoric trans people, xenic people, people who use neopronouns, etc.
2. a xenogender closely related to tumblr.
coined/flag by: @incusins (me!)
🚫 DNI: radfems, radscum, anti-mogai 🚫
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Someone who usually feels no aesthetic attraction, but occasionally has rare, sudden, and intense spikes of aesthetic attraction for a short amount of time, before returning, just as suddenly, to one’s normal amounts of acethetic attraction.
flag/term coined by; @incusins @mogaiverse
men who are exclusively attracted to men and nonbinary people.
can be used interchangeably with vincian/achillean, but is different in the sense that it does not specify man-aligned people.
coined/flag by: @incusins
🚫 DNI: radfems, radscum, anti-mogai 🚫
A neurogender that can only be understood in the context of a psychotic disorder. It feels inconsistent, hard to make sense of, disordered, or disconnected from reality.
This gender differs from pyschogender in the sense that one feels as though they are experiencing gender from a nonhuman perspective, possibly feeling supernatural, mythical, or even strange as a result of ones psychotic disorder.
Coined/Flag by: @incusins @lucidchaos
women who are exclusively attracted to women and nonbinary people.
can be used interchangeably with lesbian/sapphic, but is different in the sense that it does not specify woman-aligned people.
coined/flag by: @incusins
🚫 DNI: radfems, radscum, anti-mogai 🚫
Enban: man/woman
Enby: boy/girl
Ren: mom/dad
Zaza: dada/mama
Parent: mother/father
Zizi/Auncle: aunt/uncle
Nibling: nephew/neice
Godren/Godparent: godmother/godfather
Sib/Sibling: sis/bro, sister/brother
Child/Kid/Sprong/Spring: son/daughter
Partner/En(by)friend/Joyfriend/Datemate: bf/gf
Spouse: wife/husband
Mx: Mr/Ms
Tiz: Ma’am/Sir
Lairde: lord/lady
Goddex/Godden: god/goddess
Monarch/Royalty/Caln: king/queen
Princex/Princette: princess/prince
Fanenby/Fanby: fanboy/fangirl
i really suggest not tucking with tape, so please try this alternative (good4budget) or buy a pair of undies specifically made for tucking!
getting a swimsuit with a skirt whether it be a one piece or two, is great for hiding the bits. especially if it’s in black! for those of you who do use tape, it’s good to note that most tucking tape should last about 2hrs in the water.
measure your chest and shoulders to make sure you’re buying the right bra size! i suggest getting a padded one a size up, so you can fill it in. i really suggest getting silicone inserts and some double sided tape to keep them in place if they don’t have their own adhesive. you could always use tissue, make homemade inserts, or buy these foam inserts for only $5usd!
more about bras linked ✨ here & here ✨
I reallt suggest trying this! Some people say this stuff doesn’t work but I definitely think it does the trick!
Soy: i highly recommend soy because it’s really high in estrogen and is easy to get and add into your daily diet! tofu, soy beans, soy milk, soy yogurt, soy powder, etc;
fruits/veggies: peaches, raspberries!!, strawberries, dried prunes, alfalfa sprouts, winter squash, green beans, broccoli, and cabbage.
Wild-yam, lentils, flaxseeds, and bust tea!! (tiddy skittle herbs 🌿)
Before I end the post, I’d like to add that tomboyx.com is a great place to shop no matter your agab/gender! I’ll be making a part two if this gets enough notes. Stay safe! <33
[Image: A flag with 7 stripes. The first three go from dark blue-green to light blue-green. The center is white. The bottom three stripes go from light to dark blue. It was designed to mirror the lesbian flag]
[Original post about it here] [Deviantart original posting with updated description here] [ @archivalflags more detailed post about it here]
Mod Hermy of the Pride-Flags Deviantart here: I just found out during my hiatus from this blog that there’s been a lot of discourse surrounding this flag that I helped make.
APPARENTLY some truscum/transmed took this flag and reuploaded it (that got 8.2k notes vs the 9 notes my original post has),
wording it in a way that made people think it was made by them (and
also “official”). Also, it seems like it’s been co-opted by truscum and
transphobes to exclude trans and nonbinary gay men.
I am beyond pissed off at this, especially since I don’t remember anyone telling me it was stolen.
To be very clear:
I never want any of my flags being used to exclude part of the LGBTQAI+/MOGAI community. I am fully supportive of all
aspec identities, “MOGAI” genders (including xenogenders, kingenders,
neurogenders and neurorientations) pronoun noncomforming gays and
lesbians (or anyone, really), GNC trans people, people who use the SAM,
low/non-dysphoric trans people, and anyone else who may get excluded.
Basically, any identity (that’s not centered around harming people or animals) is amazing and valid.
Also this was never meant to be a finalized design (especially since I’m nonbinary and bi), it was simply a suggestion since the anon that asked me about a gay man flag suggested one that was too similar to the butch lesbian flag. They never followed up on it so I posted it on Deviantart for opinions but didn’t get much interaction there. I saw it around a few times but didn’t realize it took off like that and was being credited to a truscum, no less.
I’m not quite sure what to do regarding damage control around the exclusionists that are using my flag, but I started by working with several gay men in a pride, and my personal server to come up with meanings for each stripe (based on @gayflagblog ‘s flag) that explicitly include GNC, nonbinary, trans, ace/arospec, split-attraction, and pronoun nonconforming gay men (also made it prettier).
[Image: The same flag as above but with meanings superimposed over each stripe: [Community] [Inclusion] [She/her and pronoun noncomforming gays] [GNC, nonbinary, and trans men] [Ace/arospec and split-attraction gays] [Love and attraction] [Diversity]]
[Images: Two flags made to look similar to the first flag but with bolder colors. The blue stripes are slightly more purple and the green stripes are slightly more green. The first flag has seven stripes and the second is a simplified 5-stripe version]
And [Here] are some more gay man/MLM flags (including PNC and SAM gays) made by other people that I’ve been collecting (gallery is incomplete though, please send any missing flags/sources to me).
is there always an angle with neurotypicals?
do they always have ulterior motives to their actions and requests?
are they never genuinely interested in getting to know someone or helping someone?
- a confused and hopeful, yet skeptical autistic
