Correct. I sat in with her to show and explain to her my reasoning. I didn’t over explain or spoke condescendingly to her. I tried to compromise our communication barrier after, and she dismissed it. Which is when i refused to help her, which upset her because I stopped the help to let her handle making the sale and figuring out the difficulties.
This is my first post and I am trying my best to explain and respond to everyone as accurately as possible.
Not gonna lie, but if how you type here is how you talk to her all the time. . then you definitely can come off condescending.
I, [26m], have an all or nothing attitude towards a lot, in which my 22g[f] think is a terrible trait and communication skill.
Are you sure she isn't saying you have terrible communication skills in general? It took you 3 comments to explain your original post which basically boiled down to "She asked for my help with an online sale because she knows I am good at that type of stuff but then got mad when I gave it." And that doesn't really make sense. Either she is super fragile or you are not understanding what she is saying.
Also, in regards to your "all or nothing attitude" is pretty douchey thing to say. You can change your attitudes; it is not a permanent attribute about yourself.
I (also a 22 year old guy) often feel like girls will say they still love you to try and make the breakup not hurt as much; but in reality all they are doing is making it worse. Definitely give her space, but not for her.. My advice to you is to just focus on yourself. Just try to make yourself happy. Don't try to get better for her. Be better for yourself.
People are attracted to happy people. Break ups suck, but once you are over it and are happy again you are much more likely to meet someone. Seeing you happy and in good mental health, with a good attitude may make her regret breaking up with you. Although, I would not hold your breath on getting back together.
Work on yourself, make yourself happy, have a good attitude and you will find the right one (whether it be her or not).
Another thing we could all generally do to help is have fewer kids. There are only so many resources on the planet and making too many people costs lots of resources.
I agree, population is growing at an alarming rate across the world. But the US isn't actually having enough kids to even maintain our population. Our population is sustainable mostly due to immigration.
This has been called “white genocide” by racists.
Fact is; regardless of race, the poorer communities have more children. Whether it be due to lack of birth control, poorer education, or both.
You mean you have never seen European arrogance in the wild? It is a common animal, it usually comes out after a little prodding, but normally you don't even have to do that. They think 90% of Americans just go die in the gutter if they get sick because we can't read well enough to understand what is good for us.
I mean, Europe does do some things better, but it is not to the extent they want to imagine. And it makes it really hard to acknowledge those things when they themselves are pathologically incapable of admitting the things we do better. It is just the price you pay for being on top, the focus is always on you and everyone feels the need to compare themselves to you.
Did you even read what I said? Or what I was replying to? First, I am an American. I responded to someone who stated that "average Americans" have a hard time understanding the difference between Europe (the continent) and the EU. I said that I don't believe that to be the case lol.
And I agree with you. I see European elitism a lot, but it doesn't really bother me too much. I know my country's healthcare system blows massive dick. But there are a lot of things to be proud of with my country. And there are still things that needs work. Just how life is, really.
I mean, ya, I was agreeing with you. I assumed you were responding to someone from Europe because of the way they were talking about Americans, so I was making a joke about Europen arrogance.
Sorry, its late.
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