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Gender Creative: an umbrella term used to refer to individuals, generally youth, that expand notions of gender, expression and identity beyond what is perceived as the expected gender norms for their society and/or context.
Also called Gender...

Gender Creative: an umbrella term used to refer to individuals, generally youth, that expand notions of gender, expression and identity beyond what is perceived as the expected gender norms for their society and/or context.

Also called Gender Expansive.

Etymology

From English, literally meaning “an experience relating to or involving the imagination or original ideas”. The term was coined by Dr. Diane Ehrensaft, a developmental and clinical psychologist in the San Francisco Bay Area and the Director of Mental Health and founding member of the Child and Adolescent Gender Center in 2011. 

Flag

There are two flags associated with the term gender creative. [[[((((Suicide TW))))]]] The oldest flag I could find was created by Leslie Ellen Krause, tumblr user sorcerykid, in 2015. (Note: searching Leslie’s deadname, which will not be given here, reveals they are still alive.) Here’s the meaning they ascribe to the flag’s stripes and colors:

The pride flag is constructed of two exterior lavender stripes in opposition, a composite of the pink and blue stripes found in the transgender pride flag and an interior white stripe one-fifth the proportion to the remainder. The lavender stripes representing the blurring of binary gender roles and expectations whereas the white stripe represents the questioning of such social norms.

In addition to the above, Leslie posted the flag with a concise color meaning on each stripe. The top stripe represents those who are female-identified, the bottom stripe represents those who are male-identified, and the center white stripe represents freedressing. Freedressing was described by Leslie like so:

freedressing is the tacit acknowledgement that clothing is free of gender. In the broadest sense, it opposes the policing of masculine and feminine gender expression and the systematic indoctrination of binary gender roles and expectations. It subverts the stereotypes and defies the labels of Western fashion.

Note: Leslie is very open about their fetishism in adult online spaces, which will not be linked to here, stating they are interested in ageplay, as well as a leggings and panty fetishism. Since the term gender creative is most often used to refer to children and young adolescents, I did not feel it was appropriate or in good taste to use Leslie’s flag for this post, even though it was the first-known flag for the term. This note serves to inform those who may not be comfortable using their flag to represent themselves upon learning this information, for any reason. 

A second gender creative flag, featured above in this post, was created by a LGBTA Wikia user going by “Willow” in 2020, however, the individual that created and added it to the page is user cryptocrew. The flag consists of three horizontal lines, that, from top to bottom, are blue, pink and purple. In the center are four hexagons nested within each other that are yellow, green, dark grey and light grey, respectively. In the center of the hexagons are  a rhombus, and finally, a square, which are light red and dark red, respectively. In the words of “Willow”:

The light blue, pink, and purple represents children/youth and gender roles/the gender binary, yellow represents genders outside the binary, green represents unique genders, dark grey represents being void of gender, light grey represents fluidity, and the red boxes represent leaving the box/thinking outside the box.

The original image of the flag is small and pixelated, so I created a high-quality version that is being used in this post. Enjoy!

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Anonymous asked:

Hello! I was wondering if you know if there's a label for this feeling. I experience masculinity in relation to my female feelings and femininity in relation to my male feelings. I haven't found a word for it yet!

gender-resource answered:

Hey there, anon! Thanks for your question. :-)

If I understand correctly, you are saying that you experience masculinity through your femaleness and that you experience femininity through your maleness. To my knowledge, there isn’t a word to describe that exact situation, but I do have some words that are quite similar. If none of the terms I list below suffice, please feel free to send me another message and I would be happy to help you coin a term or provide a platform for you to submit one if you would like to coin a term yourself. :-)

Most similar to what you are describing would be the terms Vidfirma and Vidfirmus, which don’t appear to have been archived or even posted on tumblr, but on Amino. The definition of this term is quite lengthy, so, in my own words, Vidfirmus is an ambiguous gender where masculinity and femininity are uniquely distinct, yet drawn together into an androgynous form where masculinity is dominant, yet explicitly experienced through the perspective of femininity. Vidfirma is an ambiguous gender where masculinity and femininity are unique distinct, yet drawn together into an androgynous form where femininity is dominant, yet explicitly experience through the perspective of masculinity. If you feel like you relate to these two terms, I suppose you could refer to yourself as a Vidfirmis to communicate a bigender, gendervast, etc., though this term has not been coined to my knowledge. Why Vidfirmis? The dative plural form of “firmus”/”firma” is “firmis”, which is the same for the masculine, feminine and neuter case (trying to keep with the syntax of the coiner!).

Some other somewhat close (pairs of) terms include:

  • Femarsic & Venasic: a gender characterized by a feminine, Male energy and a gender characterized by a masculine, Female energy, respectively.
  • Femil & Melle: a Female gender that has no alignment toward femininity, but instead has masculine and/or other non-feminine alignment(s) & a Male gender that has no alignment toward masculinity, but instead has feminine and/or other non-masculine alignment(s), respectively.
  • Bisyndegender: one who is both a girl that feels personally associated with masculinity and a boy that feels personally associated with femininity.

- Gent

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I thought about this for a little while longer and did some more reading, and I realized that the terms Vidfirma and Vidfirmus have a nonbinary counterpart called “Vidfirmum”. I originally suggested “Vidfirmis” as a way to communicate a Vidfirmus/Vidfirma bigender identity, because it was the same across all three grammatical genders, but since “Vidfirmum” is a term, the syntax implies that the term “vidfirmis” would be a sort of trigender/gendervast/etc. of all three. For this reason, I would like to suggest “Vidfirme” to describe the aforementioned bigender. In the ablative case, the terms would “-firmo” and “-firma”, so “-firme” would be a neologistic conjugation, as there is no natural conjugation that is both grammatically feminine and masculine without also being neuter.

- Gent 

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Alameli: a descriptor indicating unfemininity regarding gender, expression, alignment and/or identity. Etymology
From Toki Pona, “Ala-”, a prefix equivalent to English “un-” combined with “meli”, a modifier indicting femininity, literally...

Alameli: a descriptor indicating unfemininity regarding gender, expression, alignment and/or identity.

Etymology

From Toki Pona, “Ala-”, a prefix equivalent to English “un-” combined with “meli”, a modifier indicting femininity, literally “unfeminine”. Coined by Gent (Gender-Resource), 2020.

Anyone can be an Alameli, given that their gender is not feminine in any way, shape or form. An Alameli can have one or many identities and can have an identity of any nature. This experience may or may not involve a revulsion to being perceived as feminine. This term encompasses anyone who considers themselves to be unfeminine for any reasons in any way that relates to their gender identity, alignment, expression, etc.

This term was created because other existing terms equate being unfeminine with being masculine, which is not always the case. This term is meant to be more inclusive and useful across more scenarios.

Flag

The flag was created at the same time as this term, with this being the coining post. The flag consists of five, solid-colored, horizontal stripes. The center stripe is larger than the other four stripes. From top to bottom, the colors of each stripe are purple, turquoise, lime green, greige and pastel yellow. Each stripe has the following meaning:

  • The purple stripe represents unfeminine midbinary identities.
  • The turquoise stripe represents unfeminine masculine identities.
  • The lime green stripe represents unfemininity.
  • The greige stripe represents unfeminine agender identities.
  • The pastel yellow stripe represents unfeminine abinary identities.
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Alamije: a descriptor indicating unmasculinity regarding gender, expression, alignment, identity, etc.
Etymology
From Toki Pona, “Ala-”, a prefix equivalent to English “un-” combined with “mije”, a modifier indicting masculinity, literally...

Alamije: a descriptor indicating unmasculinity regarding gender, expression, alignment, identity, etc.

Etymology

From Toki Pona, “Ala-”, a prefix equivalent to English “un-” combined with “mije”, a modifier indicting masculinity, literally “unmasculine”. Coined by Gent (Gender-Resource), 2020.

Anyone can be an Alamije, given that their gender is not masculine in any way, shape or form. An Alamije can have one or many identities and can have an identity of any nature. This experience may or may not involve a revulsion to being perceived as masculine. This term encompasses anyone who considers themselves to be unmasculine for any reasons in any way that relates to their gender identity, alignment, expression, etc.

This term was created because other existing term equate being unmasculine with being feminine, which is not always the case. This term is meant to be more inclusive and useful for more circumstances and scenarios. 

Flag

The flag was created at the same time as this term, with this being the coining post. The flag consists of five, solid-colored, horizontal stripes. The center stripe is larger than the other four stripes. From top to bottom, the colors of each stripe are orchid, salmon, orange, pastel yellow and greige. Each stripe has the following meaning:

  • The orchid stripe represents unmasculine midbinary identities.
  • The salmon stripe represents unmasculine feminine identities.
  • The orange stripe represents unmasculinity.
  • The pastel yellow stripe represents unmasculine abinary identities.
  • The greige stripe represents unmasculine agender identities.
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memegender: the ultimate anti-truscum gender

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definition: “when u could care less ab gender but hey memes sure are neat”! as further explained, “for nb people who rly couldnt give a fuck about gender and just like pissing off truscum bc usually those ppl use memes in order to convey their sarcasm and shit”

coined by: yuukuwano

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Jugagender: A gender that feels magical and mysterious.Etymology
The etymology of the word Jugagender is unknown. Jugagender was coined by an unknown user via MOGAI-archive in or before 2015.
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The Jugagender flag was created by user arsgoesgender...

Jugagender: A gender that feels magical and mysterious.

Etymology

The etymology of the word Jugagender is unknown. Jugagender was coined by an unknown user via MOGAI-archive in or before 2015

Flag

The Jugagender flag was created by user arsgoesgender in or before 2019. The flag consists of seven, horizontal, solid colored stripes of the same size. From top to bottom, they are dark orchid, lilac, violet, eggplant, violet, lilac and orchid. The meaning of the colors are unknown.

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Vectorgender: When one’s experience is in the direction of or is oriented towards a given gender in the gender spectrum, but is not the given gender itself.
Etymology
From English, “vector”, meaning “an object that has both magnitude and direction” +...

Vectorgender: When one’s experience is in the direction of or is oriented towards a given gender in the gender spectrum, but is not the given gender itself. 

Etymology

From English, “vector”, meaning “an object that has both magnitude and direction” + “-gender”, an English neologistic suffix indicating genderedness. Coined by an unknown user via MOGAI-archive in 2014. This term resurfaced in 2018 with a post from user MOGAI-lexicon, which had a definition of, “a gender that approaches or is oriented towards a particular gender identity, but is not that gender”. This post received very little attention and the term became quite obscure with the hacking of MOGAI-lexicon. 

Flag

Vectorgender, prior to this post, did not have a flag. As a result, I went ahead an created one to archive along with it. This flag consists of eight, solid-colored, vertical stripes of decreasing size, with the first stripe being the largest, followed by both the second and third, then by the fourth, fifth and sixth collectively and lastly, both the seventh and eighth stripes. Oriented horizontally is a solid vector line that is pointed to the right. From left to right, the color of the stripes are black, very dark brown, brown, beige, khaki, tan, straw yellow and cream. This sepia gradient pattern represents movement in a given direction without reaching a particular endpoint. Flag by Gent (Gender-Resource), 2020. 

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Satiagenus: describing when one’s gender has become temporarily meaningless due to repeated, inundated experiences of gender and/or analysis of said experiences; the psychological phenomenon of semantic satiation, but applied to gender identity as...

Satiagenus: describing when one’s gender has become temporarily meaningless due to repeated, inundated experiences of gender and/or analysis of said experiences; the psychological phenomenon of semantic satiation, but applied to gender identity as opposed to words; a state of gender satiation.

Also called Squandergender.

Etymology

Satiagenus is a synonym that I am offering for the term Squandergender, as “squander” means “to waste something in a reckless, foolish manner”. The coiner of the term Squandergender is unknown and was coined in or before 2017. The definition of the term Squandergender is:

The gender embodiment of the feeling you get when you read a word over and over again and start to forget its meaning.

This is referred to as Semantic Satiation. In an attempt to be more concise, the definition was reworded when coining Satiagenus.

From English, “satia” modified from “satiation” + “-genus”, Latin for “gender” or “kind”. Term coined by Gent (Gender-Resource), 2020.

Flag

Satiagenus, with this being the coining post, nor it’s progenitor Squandergender have a flag. I created a flag for Satiagenus, which consists of seven, solid colored, horizontal stripes of the same the same size. From top to bottom, they are lime green, gold, dusty rose, dark brown, dust rose, lavender and turquoise. The middle brown stripe represents a given gender experience and each stripe moves away from brown tones into other colors that are unrelated and unrecognizable as compared to the source. This is done to represent the repetition, exhaustion/satiation and the ensuing meaninglessness. Flag by Gent (Gender-Resource), 2020. 

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Passengender: a driven, uncontrollable gender that one experiences situationally, but cannot directly effect.
Etymology
An English portmanteau of the words “passenger” and “gender”, into “Passengender”. Coined by an admitted troll, found to be user...

Passengender: a driven, uncontrollable gender that one experiences situationally, but cannot directly effect. 

Etymology

An English portmanteau of the words “passenger” and “gender”, into “Passengender”. Coined by an admitted troll, found to be user passengender, in 2014 to MOGAI-archive.

Flag

This term, being a troll coinage, did not have a flag. As an expression of reclamation from transphobes, the flag is derived from the five most common colors of automobiles (2016). This flag contains five horizontal, solid colored stripes of the same size. From top to bottom, they are black, dark grey, orange (natural), silver and white. Flag by Gent (Gender-Resource), 2020. 

Note

As previously stated, this term was coined by a troll who submitted this term, along with others, to MOGAI-archive long ago. This note serves to inform anyone who may not want to use this term to describe themselves due to it’s origins. This term has been archived here because the concept may prove to be useful to someone.

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