Bismutian: An orientation in the juvelic system. (At least) xenogender and nonbinary loving men, nonbinary people, and xenogender people (XELM, XELNB, XELXE, NBLM, NBLNB, NBLXE).
The flag’s colors are taken from an image of a bismuth crystal. The symbol is the alchemical symbol for bismuth.
The other day I and some other people were talking about how there wasn’t a term for an aporagender loving aporagenders (here used as an umbrella term), while there are terms for xenogenders loving xenogenders and agender loving agenders.
so we decided to come up with a term for it:
Itherian/Itheric
From the Scots word “Ither”, meaning other. A term for someone who’s on the aporagender spectrum and it’s attracted and/or want to pursue a relationship with other people on the aporagender spectrum.
This attraction doesn’t have to be exclusive, but may be.
Both terms mean the same and can be used interchangeably. Itheric was suggested because itherian sounded too much like therian.
We also came up with another term to talk about attraction to aporine people regardless of one’s gender, itheri- (sexual, romantic, platonic, alterous, sensual, aesthetic, etc), but there’s no flag for it yet.
Final* version of the juvelic / glg /
[someone] loving [someone] chart for w/m/nb identities!
I also made a version without repeating the labels, based on a version @jynto made before:
I am also working on a text-only version, however since it’s taking too long to make, I will put it on a separate post/reblog.
I’m going to copy/paste the how to use and the Q&A from the original version here:
How to use:
1) Think about what your gender entails. For example, nonbinary woman.
2)
Go to the line or one of the lines that specifies the gender you have.
For nonbinary woman, you can go to nonbinary > woman or to woman >
nonbinary. Both lines are the same.
3) Think about what your
gender-based attraction or what you want to reveal about it entails. For
example, nonbinary people and women.
4) Look for the column or
columns that specify that attraction. In this case, again, you’ll have
to look for either the nonbinary > woman column or the woman >
nonbinary column.
5) See where the line and column cross! In this example, it should be iridian (nblnb, nblw, wlnb and wlw).
Remember
you can use broader labels too! So if you are iridian, for instance,
you can also use sapphic, enbian, and so on, if you want.
But how can you be both nonbinary and a man/a woman/a man and a woman?
Some nonbinary people may consider themselves one or both binary genders besides being nonbinary because:
They have multiple genders (at the same time or not), and one or some of them are binary or binary-adjacent; (examples:
a person is trigender and their genders are man, woman and neutrois, or
a person is genderfluid and their gender changes between agender and
woman)
They have a single gender connected to one or both binary genders even if those genders aren’t binary; (examples:
a person has a single gender that is a mix of maverique and woman, or a
person is a proxvir, which means they have a gender similar to man but
different in some way)
They have a certain
connection to one or both binary genders because of presentation,
pronouns/titles, desired transition, or other characteristics. (examples:
a person is agender but doesn’t mind being treated as a man in general,
or a person is dulcigender but has a connection to being a woman for
desiring a physical transition similar to a trans woman)
But how can you be both a man and a woman without being nonbinary?
A
nonbinary person may consider themselves both a man and a woman and
prefer an identity that only talks about them being both a man and a
woman.
A person who is both a man and a woman may also not want to identify as nonbinary for any reason.
But all those labels are too complicated/hard to remember! Why not just use ____?
You
may not use them if you don’t want to, but there are obviously people
who want to use those more specific labels, or otherwise there wouldn’t be so much of
them.
* this version is “final” because all slots are taken. However, if there are changes I deem important enough, I may make other versions of this.
Cinnabaric: The juvelic term for an attrafluid person who is both nblnb & wlw, but not nblw or wlnb. They are often (though not always) genderfluid, and their attraction to NBs and women (/and woman-aligned NBs) always feels gay (sapphic for women, enbian for NBs), gai, or otherwise symmaic.
Heliodoran: The juvelic term for an attrafluid person who is both nblnb & mlm, but not nblm or mlnb. They are often (though not always) genderfluid, and their attraction to NBs and men (/and man-aligned NBs) always feels gay (achillean/vincian for men, enbian for NBs), gai, or otherwise symmaic.
Stripe Meanings:
The middle three stripes of either flag are derived from the sapphic and mlm flags, while the purple comes from the enbian flag. The outer two stripes are inspired by the gemstones each term is named for.
If you have any problems with either of these terms or flag designs, please let me know. I may take the post down & will certainly do my best to correct the issue.🦋
Enlios: A nonbinary man attracted to other nonbinary men. They may or may not experience this attraction as gay. (nmlnm) | Pronounced en-lee-os.
Enlune: A nonbinary woman attracted to other nonbinary women. They may or may not experience this attraction as gay/lesbian. (nwlnw) | Pronounced en-loon.
Evolke: A nonbinary man attracted to nonbinary women. They may or may not experience this attraction as gay or straight. (nmlnw)| Pronounced ee-volk-e.
Estelo: A nonbinary woman attracted to nonbinary men. They may or may not experience this attraction as gay or straight. (nwlnm) | Pronounced es-tell-oh.
If you have any problems with either of these terms or flag designs, please let me know. I may take the post down & will certainly do my best to correct the issue.🦋
[ID: four pride flags, each with five horizontal stripes. two of the pride flags are identical shades of purple and pink, except one has a pale yellow moon symbol and a white stylised rose. the other two are the same, except they are shades of blue and purple. end ID]
I made this a loooong time ago because the flag I made originally, I started hating it so heres the new one!
Amethian: Someone whos nblnb/nblm/nblw/nblxeno and xenolnb/xenolm/xenolw/xenolxeno
[ID: a pride flag with five horizontal stripes. the first and last stripes are purple, the second and fourth stripes are a greyish purple. the middle stripe is twice as thick as the others and is pale purple. inside the stripe are 7 purple circles going from small to big to small again, from left to right. end ID]
Rosamour: A femme attracted to other femmes [flf].
Niamour: A butch attracted to other butches [blb].
Inamour: A butch attracted to femmes [blf].
Viamour: A femme attracted to butches [flb].
The names come from different colours representative of femmes and butches, combined with l’amour, French for love.
Rosamour = rose [pink] - symbolic of queer femininity.
Niamour =
niebieski [Polish for blue] - symbolic of queer masculinity.
Inamour = indigo - a queer colour, as well as pink and blue mixed together, while more on the blue side (representing the inamour person).
Viamour = violet - a queer colour, as well as pink and blue mixed together, while more on the pink side (representing the viamour person).
Butch and femme are not terms exclusive to lesbians or sapphic people! These terms are non-sapphic butch & femme inclusive.
Please don’t discourse on this post! You can search butch or femme on my blog to find posts about non-sapphic butches & femmes.
Coramour: A femme attracted to both butches and femmes.
From corcairghorm, Irish for violet.
Mariamour: A butch attracted to both butches and femmes.
From ultramarine, a colour close to indigo.
Once again, butch and femme are not terms exclusive to lesbians or sapphic people! These terms are non-sapphic butch & femme inclusive. Please don’t discourse on this post!
