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Top Surgery Consult Questions

abirdepisode:

Here are all the questions I asked my surgeon at my consult. Not all were actually applicable to me, but he was really chill about going through every one. That was a big part of me feeling comfortable with him. I pulled out three pages of double spaced questions and said “I have kinda a lot…” and he said no worries, took them to read, and spent an hour with me answering them. If they rush you through a consult… will they really take the time they need in other areas? like literally performing surgery on you. Just things to think about that aren’t so obvious!



Surgery Specific Questions:

❏ What procedures could be done on my chest for my size, what they recommend, what options there are, etc.

 

❏ Do you do liposuction on the sides to help prevent dog ears? Or is there anything else you do to prevent dog ears?

❏ If lipo on the sides, are the lymph nodes near that area and a potential problem?

❏ Do you do chest contouring/masculinization? Do you use liposuction to help get the chest flat?

❏ What options do you offer in terms of nipples? Can I go nipple free?

❏ Where will my scars be? What shape will they be? With the amount of space between my breasts, does that typically result in there being space between my scars? Or will they be really close together or touch? *add preference photos and discussion here

❏ What is your end result goal with my chest? (n.b. mu surg said OUR goal is xyz. and that was another thing that made me choose him)

❏ Do you see anything coming up that will interfere with the results? If you get in there and can’t do the preferred plan, what would you do?

❏ How will surgery impact sensation?

❏ Do medical students/surgical residents take part in the surgery? If so, how much would they likely be doing

❏ what level of experience would they have?

❏ How will changes in weight affect the appearance of my chest after surgery? I tend to go up and down 10-15 pounds every couple years.

❏ Who will be in the operating room with you?

❏ How long does surgery typically take?

❏ Does a catheter get put in for this surgery? And an intubation tube? Are you put under general anesthesia?

❏ Will I be walking into the OR and conscious, or will I be sedated prior?

 

Surgeon Questions:

❏ training and certifications? (ABPS, ABCS,) Specific trans care?

❏ How often do your patients come back for revisions? Are revisions included in the original cost?

 ❏ What made you want to specialize in gender affirming surgery?

❏ What’s the best way to get in touch with you?

❏ What is your patient satisfaction rate?

❏ How many of my procedures have you performed? Can I see before and after photos of previous patients/results?

❏ How many mastectomies are performed at this facility monthly?

❏ Are there any legal cases pending against you by any trans patients?

 

Complications Questions:

❏ What complications can occur?

❏ How many of those complications heal on their own?

❏ How many people end up needing another surgery?

❏ How often do your patients have complications?  

❏ How often do your patients get hematomas?


❏ What can be done to prevent that from happening?

❏ What other surgical complications are there?

❏ How are complications handled?

❏ will my sle or other conditions cause complications? (n.b. or put your own medical needs) 

❏ Do any of my medications pose any issues?

❏ I use cannabis for appetite and anxiety. How long before surgery and how long after surgery should I abstain? Can I use edibles?

 

Pre-Op Questions:

❏ Are there any factors that could cause the surgery to be delayed? What are guidelines for BP?

❏ Is there any protocol for corona virus?

❏ Are there any medications that you need me to stop before surgery? Should I take as normal on the day of the surgery?

❏ Are there any pre-op instructions to follow?

❏ Do you recommend pre-op vitamin c? Pre-op hibiclens? (n.b. vit c promotes healing, hibiclens disinfects your skin)

❏ Do you advocate for pre-banking blood for transfusions?

❏ Do I need to fast and stop water intake before surgery? How long?

❏ What kind of pre-op physical and bloodwork do you need?

❏ Is there a pre-op appointment before the surgery date?

❏ Do I need a Mammogram before surgery?

❏ What is the insurance process like on your end?

❏How quickly will you know whether or not my insurance will help pay for the procedure?

❏ How will that be communicated to me? Do I need further documentation? Who at your office should I direct my insurance questions to?

❏ Should I have my genes tested for breast cancer risk?

❏ Will there be a time to talk to the anesthesiologist with questions about the anesthesia end of things? Ie: anesthesia, nausea medication, anxiety medication,

Post Op Questions:

❏ how can I expect to feel when I wake up? 1 hr later? 2? 6?

❏ Do you use post op binders? Or ace bandages? Do you provide the binder? Is there a specific brand I should buy? How long post op should I expect to wear the binder?

❏ What kind of supplies do you provide post op? What do I need to buy?

❏ How long are the drains kept in? Can they be taken out sooner if there is not a large output?

❏ How long do I have to wait before I can shower?

❏ How long post op until I can drive?

❏ What should I expect for pain level? Timeline?

❏ What is the timeline/frequency on post-op visits? Will they be scheduled before the surgery so I can arrange driving the first week or two and then just know what to expect after that?

❏ Is it better to sleep in a recliner post op?

❏ What does the typical recovery timeline look like? Will you provide a document with the restriction guidelines?

Restrictions?

Daily Activities?

At what point of my recovery can I walk a mile? Drive? Exercise? Lift things like groceries?

❏ What medications will be prescribed? Are there other/complementary  options for pain management?

❏ What kind of help will I need with my recovery?

❏ Will you provide a written version of post op instructions?

❏ What dressing changes will I need to do after surgery? How often? What are signs of infection or complication we can notice during dressing changes?

❏What scar care routine do you recommend?

❏ How soon after surgery can I see my final results? How much do complications impact the final result?

❏ What are my options if I don’t like the final result?

❏ Will I be able to do light stretching of my back and legs post op to help with my bad back? What about taking walks and slowly riding an exercise bike to get movement in there to alleviate pain? Or what kind of light exercises/movement would you recommend?

❏What percentage of your patients still have pain years after surgery?

❏ Is there anything you do or have people do in recovery to help prevent the likelihood of having long term pain? *specific post op and pre op care

❏ Do you provide a letter for getting the gender marker changed on identification and birth certificates?

Because Other Swimwear Options Just Don’t Cut it For Some of Us.

fumbledeegrumble:

jack-o-lantern-princess:

flavntstreetwear:

seethestarsablaze:

flavntstreetwear:

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Help us provide an option for the nonbinary and transmasculine community in terms of swimtops. Everyone should have the option to go shirtless if they want to and everyone should be able to do it comfortably and confidently. Some people are cool with wearing a bikini top, tight compression sports bra, or a baggy tshirt – but what if you aren’t? What if you want to get a tan and wear something that’s more “masculine” or gender neutral? What if you want to be able to just feel shirtless? Our Bareskin Top is our solution to this problem. Offered in a variety of skin tones and in a more comfortable cut than other binders on the market, the Bareskin Top allows you to wear something that is less visually triggering than anything else out there and allows you to get a tan while also spending time in the water.

We need your help to make it a reality though! Our kickstarter is live until December 19, 2015 and with your help donating and spreading the word, we can have these bad boys available by next summer if we meet our fundraising goal.

Don’t you think everybody deserves to feel comfortable in their bare skin?

https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/bareksintop/bareskin-top-transmasculine-swim-binder

Donate, signal boost, spread the word, & support your community! If every person who reblogged this donated just $5 we would reach our goal in no time!

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Special thanks to Yoomi Park for shooting our video and for Kayla, Chris, Rookie and Courtney for drinking beer at 11am to make this happen.

This product won’t be perfect for everyone but for some it’s exactly what they are looking for– I know that we made the prototype because of my personal experience with Dysphoria and not being satisfied with the options I have for swimtops as a transmasc person. I don’t want to cover myself with a shirt all the time, I don’t want to swim in something that looks like a wetsuit, I don’t like the way my other binders look underneath tanktops in the summer, etc. I personally want to look down and not be triggered, and for me (and many others) top surgery isn’t attainable anytime soon, so something that “blends” more into my skin is a relief.

The bareskin top has helped ease my Dysphoria, similar to when I tried on my very first binder– and now I wear this top more than my other binder hands down.

SO AGAIN– if every one of my followers donated JUST $1 we would easily meet our goal!! We see that a lot of you support this idea and we want to make it a reality– but we need your help!!

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For my Trans and GFD followers :)

❤ because I know some of you cuties might be able to use this

ghost-pieces asks:
Hi! I'm ftm and I want top surgery but I feel like my tummy will be disproportionate if I have a flat chest! Most of my fat redistributed there (over 2 yrs on t) and I worry that it will just make it look bigger if my chest is flat :( are there any cis guys out there who have a big tum but flat chest? Any trans guys who have experienced this? Help!

transgalaxies:

wetwareproblem:

loud-and-queer:

ineffableqpp:

chubbytubbytrans:

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I just got top surgery last month. I’ve got a big ol tummy from around two years on T. I feel like if anything, my stomach looks smaller, because my chest isn’t puffing out my shirt and making weird angles that don’t work well in men’s clothing. Also, how you look in a binder doesn’t really predict how top surgery will effect your stomach in particular; binders are pushing the fat on your chest places, and some of that ends up going into weird little rolls. 

There are absolutely plenty of cis guys who have a big stomach and flat chest. The majority, from what I can tell, carry weight in the stomach to a degree that can seem really weird for trans guys when we look at our own bodies, but not when we look at other bodies. We’re used to our own bodies to a degree where changes seem abnormal, where in another guy we wouldn’t look askance at them whatsoever. Your fat redistributed there for a reason, and that’s because that’s where most cis guys carry the majority of their fat! It’s a perfectly natural sillhouette. 

After top surgery, your stomach might seem strangely large to you, but that’s just because of your perspective looking down at it. Before it was masked somewhat by your chest, and you’re quite literally drastically changing your bodily dimensions within a few hours. It helps to look at yourself from the front, whether in a mirror or if you can get someone to snap pictures! 

This is, at least partly, how I fell into the trap I’m currently in of “I need to try and lose weight to affirm my gender.”

I squished my boobs to my chest to see how I’d look flat or reduced and realized my stomach looked huge to me without them there when I looked down. 

I realized I’d been picturing myself not just with a flat/reduced chest, but with a thin and androgynous body to go along with it.

Coming from the other side, one of my biggest dysphoria triggers is that having a large belly (as I did long before transition) and small boobs reads as way too masc to me.

I’ve gotten caught in a similar trap to loud-and-queer, above - I need the tummy to match my chest, because as it stands right now I’m sure everyone who sees me just gets “fat dude.”

here’s some post-op results of trans guys who have big bellies (censored for tumblr’s approval):

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Fat/Plus Size Transmasc Resources and Advice

plussizedandrogyny:

recently i’ve been doing a lot of research about packers, and I’ve noticed that a lot of the info out there isn’t made with fat transmascs in mind. Well, i’m a fat transmasc, and I want to help out with that. Please keep in mind that I am pre-T, pre-top, and am speaking mostly from personal experience! this post will probably be long, so info is below the cut. At the end, please feel free to add more advice or something i have missed.

Keep reading

pittssmitts:

hiya! I figured id make an informational post about the little things ive noticed about being on testosterone that I found weren’t talked about a lot when I was starting my transition and even before when I was doing my research. I think that trans sexual health is an extremely important part of trans peoples lives (and that doesnt necessarily mean sex) seeing as the physical changes that happen during transition are often foreign to us. Sexual health keeps us healthy and comfortable in our bodies, so do your best to stay attentive to your body’s changes! As always, consult your doctor if you feel the need to. These are only tips ive learned from transitioning myself and from my doctor when I asked about certain things.

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Anonymous asks:
While wearing a binder, nipples should face forward right?

gc2b:

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Yep! Each chest has its own shape, and so shouldn’t need a significant amount of adjusting tissue to achieve this, but in general this is the ideal way to wear a binder! :)

Fighting AFAB Dysphoria 101

gayamericanoutlaw:

Obviously, nothing I say here is going to work for everyone (people are different!), but this is a master list of things that have helped me, personally fight gender dysphoria as an AFAB person and feel more comfortable in my body and identity. This is not limited to people of one specific gender identity; trans guys, transmasculine and transneutral enbies, AFAB gender-fluid peeps on their male days, butch and gender-nonconforming queer women, literally anyone who feels these tips would be helpful is welcome to them.

Below the cut are three lists: style tips to help you achieve the look you want, ways you can alter your behavior to help you be read as male, and finally, little things you can do to cope on bad dysphoria days. Let’s get started!

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Anonymous asks:
Hey Matteo do you have any tips on how to dress as a trans man? I don’t... really know what to wear and look nice without features I would rather not show off being more easily seen if that makes sense

pittssmitts:

I’ve actually been working on a wardrobe guide a while back, but this made me remember to finish it, so here it is! All of this is stuff I’ve learned from experience and are my preferences, but I hope you can get something out of it.

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