word of advice: don’t say “my preferred pronouns are” or “i identify as [gender]”. instead, try saying “my pronouns are” and “my gender is”. cis people transmeds & terfs will hear “preferred” and “identify” and think your pronouns are optional and your gender is a choice, and will actively misgender you because they choose to see you as your agab. taking away the optional aspect is more assertive and more affirmative. for example, a trans man telling somone that they identify as a man vs telling someone that they are a man can make a difference in the way they are perceived.
Anonymous asked:
zombie pronouns?