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Lesbi-NoCisWoma or Despinacoric
Lesbi-NoCisWoma also called Despinacoric, is a term for lesbians who aren’t attracted to Cisgender Women, they:
- One’s attraction to a woman fades once it is known that this person is a cisgender woman.
- One does not feel attraction to women until it is known that the woman in question is not cisgender.
- One chooses not to date cisgender women.
This term is exclusively for Lesbians who arent attracted to Cis Women, any non-cis lesbians can use it (lesboys, non-binary, multigender, etc…), the term is used by transgender, non-binary, or otherwise non-cis people who are not attracted to cis women or are unwilling to date cis women.
How and why ?
The unwillingness to date cis women is not because there’s any inherent difference between cis and trans women, rather it stems from issues of safety, trauma, oppression, or other personal reasons. One may not want to be vulnerable to misconceptions, misgendering, or oppression from their partner. One may also prefer a trans partner because one would relate to them more.
This label was made by an inclusive individual and so exclusionists don’t use it !!
Etymology
Despina come from one of the moon of Neptune. Since the term is a merge of Lesbian and NoCisWomasexual, the name is also a merge making LesbiNoCisWoma
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