Idealgender

Definition: Ideally, you would identify or exist as one or more gender(s), though due to your awareness of your present gender(s), you know you aren’t that/those gender(s). Your yearning to be this gender may fluctuate, but it is typically still present. You may similarly feel this/these gender(s) at certain points, though those moments do not last.

This term is to only be used by trans, nonbinary, or other individuals who are not cis. This is explicitly said as I fear this term may exacerbate internalized transphobia or otherwise harm those individuals. 

Specific usages of the term may be phrased like “idealgender boy” or “idealgenboy.”

Feel free to send me an ask/DM if you have questions or suggestions. :) 

i made,,, my own aro label!! bc i couldnt find one that fit me right

Amovoromantic - can experience romantic attraction (crushes or squishes) but once a connection is formed and/or the feelings are reciprocated the intensity of your feelings can fluctuate back and forth between platonic and romantic from day to day