You might be aegosexual if...
- you enjoy the idea of sex but don’t want to experience it in real life
- you have sexual fantasies but would never want to be IN THEM and the fantasies don’t involve you
- you enjoy reading erotica/ smut fanfics
- - you enjoy absorbing sexual content but it’s never about yourself
- - you like reading smut in third person but find first person to be a huge turn off. And second person is literally The Worst
- you daydream about sexual situations but the people in the daydreams aren’t yourself (or typically even other real people- but your OCs or fictional characters)
- you find yourself looking at attractive people thinking “yeah they’re hot but I don’t want to DO ANYTHING with them”
- imagining the sensory experience of sex makes you question whether it could really feel good as good as it is in your mind
-writing sex scenes is a lot more uncomfortable reading them, even if creating them in your mind is cool
A few years ago there was a person who had cultivated an entire list of acespec identities and lists of common traits. I can no longer find those traits or posts.
SO! This I made this! I’d love for other aego people to add on! And then to add your ideas to the original post.
