heterosexual is not a default…

..and that’s why i originally made this blog. it started as a place to hold information/definitions on terms way back in 2015, and it still mainly does that, but also serves as a place of collecting other resources, like canon representation, merchandise, and artwork. i also try to keep tags with accurate information on “"discourse”“ topics, like asexuality, ‘making up’ genders, dysphoria, the split attraction model, etc.

stuff I can do for you:

  • help you find a gender/orientation term for you
  • help you coin a new term if none exist that work
  • reblog your coining post for gender/orientation/etc terms
  • answer the majority of questions about why something may be offensive, how to write a character that’s (identity), etc
  • i also have a sideblog for everything pronoun related

note: at the moment, for my masterlists, this blog may mass reblogs flags and terms. expect your dashboard to be flooded.

➥ last but not least: i have a patreon! consider supporting me and get handmade pride merchandise every month + see what changes i made before anyone else.

current to-do list:

  • i have a bunch of fall/autumn related terms, i’m gonna spam them all to get them out of my drafts
  • clean drafts - i have a LOT of very old, now irrelevant posts in my drafts since this blog has been around for five years, with a lot them being. posts from like 2018. i’m currently going through the drafts (all five thousand :-) to get rid of old posts)
  • new theme for this blog
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asked a question

Hi! Idk if you remember me, but anyways I saw your isogender post and I’ve decided to try it out, along with demigirlflux, so thank you for your kindness. The only thing is, is it pronounced EECE-o or ICE-o? I tried to search it up, but nothing came up. Thanks!

as far as i’m aware, ICE-o!

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Wandergender/Tradergender

A gender based around the Wandering Trader or a gender that trades parts of itself with other genders

Associated Pronouns:

  • Wan/De/Ders/Derself
  • Trad/Er/Trads/Erself

Usage:

  • Wan walked to the park by derself. Ders was very excited to go because de wanted to see the puppies that were playing there!
  • Trad walked to the park by erself. Trads was very excited to go because trad wanted to see the puppies that were playing there!

Coined By/Flag Credit: Me (@term-hoarder)! Please credit if used!

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DO NOT REPOST TO FLOP/CRINGE ACCOUNTS, ESPECIALLY WITH MY URL ATTACHED.

A few days ago, I thought it would be fun to make a mogai identity about my favourite series so…

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Emblemgender- A gender identity influenced by the series Fire Emblem.

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Color meanings:

Royal Blue- Lords. Ex Marth and Chrom.

Dark Cyan- Divine Dragons. Ex Naga and Sothis.

Light Grey- Avatars. Ex Robin and Corrin.

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Divine Symbol Variations:

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really not enjoying the recent push for xenogenders to only be used by neurodivergent people,, it feels like so many genders coined in the twitter mogai community are listed as neurodivergent-exclusive for no reason other than the fact that so many people now think xenogenders can’t be used by neurotypicals. it’s perfectly fine to coin neurogenders or to want a gender to only be used by neurodivergent people due to certain characteristics of the term, but if you’re just coining a general xenogender, please don’t make it neurodivergent-exclusive.

like, yes, it’s very common for xenogenders to be coined by and used by neurodivergent people, but we are not the only people who benefit from these terms. spreading the idea that xenogenders can only be used by neurodivergent folks is going to harm neurotypical trans people. it makes me sad to see neurotypical questioning people asking if they’re allowed to use xenogenders because they’ve seen so many younger/newer community members claiming they can’t.

(not to mention that the idea that only neurodivergent people can have ‘weird’ genders is. kind of ableist.)

(this is a custom gender for anonymous, but can be used by anyone!)

skunkgender (white striped + pink striped flags)

the gender identification of skunks and their cute, lazy and grumpy personalities. this gender may feel untamed and insecure, or just as an innocent connection to skunks

some suggested pronouns: skunk/skunks/skunkself, stomp/stomps/stompself, stink/stinks/stinkself and fluff/fluffs/fluffself

(this term + flag has been coined by me and may be reposted with credit!) ♡

in order: shiftgender, mentalshiftgender, sensoryshiftgender, phantomshiftgender

Shiftgender:

A gender you only feel when in shift as your kintype(s). The gender suffix can be replaced with the gender felt. For example shiftboy, shiftgirl, shiftnonbinary etc.

Mentalshiftgender:

A gender you only feel in mental shift as your kintype(s). Gender suffix can be replaced with the gender felt.

Sensoryshiftgender:

A gender you only feel when in sensory shift as your kintype(s). Gender suffix can be replaced with the gender felt.

Phantomshiftgender:

A gender you only feel when in phantom shift as your kintype(s). Gender suffix can be replaced with the gender felt.

Shiftgender flag made by http://aminoapps.com/p/5cgyym, other flags made and submitted by teamdaydreamflags Tuesday, 4 February 2020. These flags/terms have been reposted [learn why].

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Proposal for the Dahlian Flag

I know @nova-is-hella-cute made flags for the combo terms by @genderless-gibberish, but I felt the dahlian flag’s colors were too similar to plumerian’s, so I wanted to try to make one myself.

I did exactly as Nova did and used @nooonbinaryyyy’s flags as a template. I color picked from the photo on the dahlia wiki.

Dahlian: An agender/genderless person who loves men, women, non-binary people, and other agender/genderless people