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Anonymous asked: Is it possible you can fake a mental illness, convince yourself you actually have it, and develop that illness as a result? I see a few people saying it is possible, but I'm skeptical and wonder if it's a psychologically valid concept to self-inflict a disorder like depression, anxiety, or anything else?

Hey Anon,

This is a complex question which neither of us mods feel that we are qualified enough to give a proper answer. It is possible that certain patterns of behavior reinforce a genetic vulnerability to develop a particular mental illness. This depends on the individual and on the specific illness.

However, it’s important to consider the fact that if someone’s going to invest themselves into faking a disorder and spend time researching it and believing it, there are possibly already some underlying socioemotional problems. So then it becomes a bit of a chicken and an egg scenario as to which happened first and what caused what. 

Another thing to keep in mind with mental health problems is that it’s a common feeling amongst us to feel as if we’re making symptoms up or faking an illness for attention, so that could be a contributing factor. Because our experience is so intangible, and because of the surrounding stigma, it’s not unusual for an individual to be in denial of their condition.

What I always stress in my answers is the importance of not focusing on the label, but focusing on the symptoms which are causing distress and an inability to function in an individual’s life. Whether there is a diagnosable mental illness or not, there are symptoms which merit attention in their own right. 

Hope this gives you a clearer perspective on the matter. This is by no means a professional answer, and I believe we still don’t know enough about how to brain works and how mental illness works to be able to say things for sure.

Take care,

- Tea

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Anonymous asked: Yo what's the info on mirror neurons? I thought I might have a good empathy but this makes more sense to me. I have ADHD and grew up with communication issues because I couldn't figure out what was the 'right way' or the 'right words' and reading was hard because I couldn't grasp the exact purpose or what the words collectively meant. However I mirrored thought patterns intensely to a fault, like I had no real self in this but this was myself, it turned inward and I tried mirroring certain 1/2

2/2 certain aspects of myself like certain state of minds and things. I had ADHD and had a lot of mood disturbances at one point and then I lost all sense of self and was filled up by a lot of family psychological warfare and it tore me apart. My sister generally has awful anxiety and her ranting can make me have a shutdown, happens often. Even through text arguments I have trouble keeping my own thoughts or bigger perspective because I’m full of their thought pattern. It’s so naturalistic

and it can be subtle things and pretty nonverbal in terms of sensing it but there’s various ambiguous thought patterns upon why someone said something how they did and it’d be so insignificant and I’d be so synced into it. Made it hard to be ‘myself’, I feel I had a lot expected of me in terms of 'self’, I adore art and thrive like this and I want to be actor and have beeen encouraged always, wondering if mirror neurons is a big discussion or not because it damaged me so badly for long time

On the mirror neurons, I have ADHD and grew up with dyspraxia related issues and communication and reading/writing difficulties, in hyperfocus my ideas were wildly jumbled and mixed up and broken in terms of language format however I was praised intensely for my ideas I genuinely couldn’t understand them myself, I grew jo feeling like an idiot and treated like one however I’ve lost this skill for a long time but I’m gaining it again.

I think these are all your asks?

I mean, mirror neurons just describe a function of the human brain in which the same part of the brain that fires when doing a task fires when you see someone else doing that task. This can also occur when seeing someone experiencing an emotion.

Mirror neurons are a normal human brain function. They wouldn’t describe or explain if you’re experiencing something out of the ordinary. They don’t cause issues with your sense of self, as they’re something that most people have, and the majority of people have a normal sense of self. Mirror neurons help in mirroring subconscious gestures so that people can feel a sense of connection, and they also help in building empathy. They also allow humans to learn how to do things through watching others do them.

It doesn’t sound like what you’re talking about has to do with mirror neurons but with an unhealthy level of basing your sense of self on the people around you. I’m not really sure what you mean by mirror neurons being a “big discussion” because like. They’re an important area of neurological research, yes, but they aren’t understood as a cause of mental health issues or distress. The only discussion about them that I know of in psychological research is that they’re part of normal human psychological development.

I would urge you to reach out to a professional about your issues with sense of self, as it sounds quite distressing. A sense of self that doesn’t depend on others’ perceptions or thoughts is actually one thing that I’ve been working on in therapy, and I’ve been finding it really helpful.

But mirror neurons are part of normal psychological development, not abnormal psychology.

–roboraptor

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Anonymous asked: Did you get an ask about whether you can become a psychologist if you have a mental illness?

mentalillnessmouse:

I think we answered the original, but you absolutely can. In fact, Marsha Linehan, the creator of DBT (a very successful therapy for BPD and also used for mood disorders, substance abuse, etc), has BPD herself and developed DBT based on her own experiences. I think psychologists with mental illnesses can even be better than those without because they can better understand what it’s like as opposed to someone who has only studied it.

-Cornet

I forgot to add that the psychology field isn’t free from ableism. So that’s still something you should aware of, but I think that just proves even more that there needs to be more mentally ill psychologists.

-Cornet

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Anonymous asked: what kind of degree should I go for in university to get a job in mental health?

Hey Anon,

There are several types of degrees you can earn at a bachelor’s and master’s level(I should mention that I am talking about the US college system, it sounds like you might be in the UK). Some of the degrees include: psychology, social work, human development, mental health counseling, substance abuse counseling, marriage and family therapy…the list goes on a bit further, but those are the main ones. I would definitely do some research within the university you’re in to get more information about these degrees, as some of them differ in what part of mental health do they focus on(example- psychology/counseling focuses on individuals, while social work can focus on a larger scale such as society and groups within society).

I am going to tell you my experience, as I am currently in the mental health field and working on being a licensed professional counselor(one of the licenses you can obtain as a therapist). At the bachelor’s level(undergrad), I obtained my degree in psychology. I should also note at this point, that at the bachelor level, there are very few job opportunities. You will most likely have to get further education like I did; I finally graduated in August with my master’s degree(graduate) in Mental Health Counseling. This degree has helped me obtain the job I have now, and will also help me meet qualifications as a licensed professional when I apply in the future.

You can also get further education for another 2-3 and receive your Ph.D(the highest degree in the U.S.). I have thought about getting a degree in psychology back in undergraduate, but it is VERY competitive and it is a lot of work. I’m not saying that it’s impossible to receive a Ph.D; I just know for me, I’m content with my master’s degree and eventually being licensed so I can be a private practice therapist.

Unfortunately, I’m not too sure how the U.K. differs in degrees. But hopefully this was somewhat helpful in terms of what type of degrees you can work towards and how much education you need for each level of education.

Keep Strong and Keep Moving,

Turtle Girl

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Anonymous asked: this is weird but uh why do people 'feel' so much for others? i mean i get caring about ppl you like but i dont understand why people care so much about other people? like when i read something awful in the news or someone tells me their bad experience, i could fake act like i care but... i really dont care... sometimes w/ ppl i care about too, i cant really sympathize. i know i lack empathy or whatever it is but i still cant grasp my head around why people care so much or are easily moved.

Hey anon,

Well, I guess it depends what you mean by why. In terms of why it developed, it was an evolutionary adaptation that allowed humans to form societies. You can even see empathy in modern-day non-human primates. It’s documented in other species as well – basically any mammal with group behavior has some sort of ability to understand the feelings of others in the group. For many species, these feelings really just amount to pain or aggression, etc, and the ability to “empathize” is based on pheromones.

We feel greater empathy for those we know closely. This is a function to both allow us to live in society and to help our genes propagate. It causes us to protect close relatives that carry similar genes so that they can continue a close line.

I think with free thought and action this becomes something a bit more. We have autonomy to be kind and to be cruel. However, the core is an evolutionary thing that has allowed our species to survive.

That said, empathy definitely exists on a continuum. Some experience too much and some too little. Those of us who feel empathy can imagine and feel the emotions of others. It’s not something we choose to experience, but it’s something that happens.

–Roboraptor

Major Schools of Thought in Psychology

References

Hothersall, D. (1995). History of Psychology, 3rd ed. New York: Mcgraw-Hill.

Schacter, D. L., Wegner, D., and Gilbert, D. (2007). Psychology. New York: Worth Publishers

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Anonymous asked: Can you pursue a career in psychology (specifically a therapist) if you have a past of mental health issues or hospitalization?? (Or if you still have mental issues while you're trying to get a job in psychology?)

mentalillnessmouse:

We were answering this at the same time!

Here was my answer:

mentalillnessmouse:

Hi anon,

Yes you definitely can. Most therapists have some past with mental health issues. I think it makes you more empathetic and understanding towards your clients.

It’s important to work on yourself and your own issues before you become a therapist and this is something that they encourage you to do in grad school and beyond (like being in therapy and having a supervisor). The work can be hard and can be very emotionally draining so it’s important to be stable and taking care of yourself but your past should not hold you back from being successful in the field, if anything it will make you a better therapist.

Lina

Hey anon,

Yes. Many, many mental health professionals have a history of mental illnesses or disorders. In fact, the person who invented DBT, which is now the standard for therapy for BPD, had BPD herself.

There is still stigma within the field, especially because a lot of professors have a sort of “on the outside looking in” perspective. However, it’s definitely possible to pursue a career in this with a history of mental illness. In fact, in my opinion, more psychologists who have experienced mental illness themselves is a great thing.

–Roboraptor

Hey anon, I just wanted to throw in that there is a growing movement in mental health to include people with lived experience with mental illness on the treatment team. I work as a peer support specialist, which requires training and certification, but not an advanced degree. In addition, people who do have advanced degrees but also have lived experiences often lead peer support programs. Even on the clinical side of things, mental health professionals who are also peers (people with mental illness) tend to have better results with clients, as they can truly empathize, rather than just approach things from a scientific and objective standpoint.

Best of luck and stay strong,
Rowan

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Anonymous asked: I'm always reading and thinking about my mental illness, almost all day. I'm afraid I'm faking it since I know everything about it

Hey anon,

Were you diagnosed before you started reading about it? In that case, it’s probably just normal curiosity and wanting to know about what’s going on in your life. However, even with a diagnosis, it is possible to manifest symptoms from reading and thinking about them. I would try to record what symptoms you have and how long you have had them. If a symptom showed up only after you read it, or worsened when you read about it a lot, your brain might have created the change in response to the suggestion in the reading material.

This doesn’t mean you are faking a mental illness. It is fairly normal to create symptoms, as our brains are susceptible to suggestion, but this doesn’t mean you’re faking all of your symptoms, and it definitely doesn’t mean you’re creating these symptoms consciously. A professional can definitely help you sort some of these things out as well.

Learning about your diagnosis can be very helpful, but I just want to stress that it is important to develop other interests and try to stay away from focusing on one area of information too heavily.

Best of luck and stay strong,

Rowan

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Anonymous asked: Can you pursue a career in psychology (specifically a therapist) if you have a past of mental health issues or hospitalization?? (Or if you still have mental issues while you're trying to get a job in psychology?)

Hi anon,

Yes you definitely can. Most therapists have some past with mental health issues. I think it makes you more empathetic and understanding towards your clients.

It’s important to work on yourself and your own issues before you become a therapist and this is something that they encourage you to do in grad school and beyond (like being in therapy and having a supervisor). The work can be hard and can be very emotionally draining so it’s important to be stable and taking care of yourself but your past should not hold you back from being successful in the field, if anything it will make you a better therapist.

Lina

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Anonymous asked: Hi this isn't really a mental illness question but I was wondering if you knew the psychology behind this. Whenever my parents are in the house I don't feel like doing anything at all. But the second they leave I become so productive. I can get a million things done. Then they come back and I'm back to being lazy. I understand if you can't answer this but you were the first person/blog I thought to ask.

Hey anon, we can’t diagnose at all here, but this doesn’t sound too unusual to me. I know I feel self-conscious when I think someone’s watching what I’m doing. I used to have a really hard time getting things done when I lived with my parents, and I still sometimes have a hard time cleaning when roommates are around. For me, it’s often at least a bit because I like to do things my own way, and I don’t want people judging me for “doing things in the wrong order” or getting distracted easily or anything.

There might be some anxiety attached to your productivity, but I don’t know if it’s bad enough for you to need to seek help. It’s up to you and how much support you want in trying to lessen the impact of having people at home when you want to get stuff done. A therapist could probably help you with this if it’s interfering heavily with your life.

Best of luck and stay strong,

Rowan

Types of Mental Health Professionals

                     Which mental health professional is right for me?  There are many types of mental health professionals. Finding the right one for you may require some research. Below is a listing of types of mental health treatment professionals to help you understand the differences between the services they provide.                                    

The following mental health professionals can prescribe medication; however, they may not provide therapy:

  • Psychiatrist – A medical doctor with special training in the diagnosis and treatment of mental and emotional illnesses.  A psychiatrist can prescribe medication, but they often do not counsel patients.
  • Child/Adolescent Psychiatrist – A medical doctor with special training in the diagnosis and treatment of emotional and behavioral problems in children.  Child and Adolescent psychiatrists can also precribe medication; however, they may not provide psychotherapy.
  • Psychiatric or Mental Health Nurse Practitioner – A registered nurse practitioner with a graduate degree and specialized training in the diagnosis and treatment of mental and emotional illness.

Additionally, your Primary Care Physician, Physician’s Assistant or Nurse Practiotioner (depending on your state) are often qualified to provide medication.

The following mental health professionals can provide psychological assessments and therapy; however, cannot generally prescribe medications (although some states will allow it):

  • Clinical Psychologist – A psychologist with a doctoral degree in psychology from an accredited/designated program in psychology.  Psychologists are trained to make diagnoses and provide individual and group therapy.
  • School Psychologist – A psychologist with an advanced degree in psychology from an accredited/designated program in School Psychology.  School Psychologists are trained to make diagnoses, provide individual and group therapy, and work with school staff to maximize efficiency in the schools setting.

The following mental health professionals can provide counseling; however, cannot prescribe medication:

  • Clinical Social Worker – A counselor with a masters degree in social work from an accredited graduate program. Trained to make diagnoses, provide individual and group counseling, and provide case management and advocacy; usually found in the hospital setting.
  • Licensed Professional Counselor – A counselor with a masters degree in psychology, counseling or a related field. Trained to diagnose and provide individual and group counseling.
  • Mental Health Counselor – A counselor with a masters degree and several years of supervised clinical work experience. Trained to diagnose and provide individual and group counseling.
  • Certified Alcohol and Drug Abuse Counselor – Counselor with specific clinical training in alcohol and drug abuse. Trained to diagnose and provide individual and group counseling.
  • Nurse Psychotherapist – registered nurse who is trained in the practice of psychiatric and mental health nursing. Trained to diagnose and provide individual and group counseling.
  • Marital and Family Therapist – counselor with a masters degree, with special education and training in marital and family therapy. Trained to diagnose and provide individual and group counseling.
  • Pastoral Counselor – clergy with training in clinical pastoral education Trained to diagnose and provide individual and group counseling.
  • Peer Specialist– counselor with lived experience with mental health or substance use conditions.  Assists clients with recovery by recognizing and developing strengths, and setting goals.  Many peer support programs require several hours of training.

Other Therapists – therapist with an advance degree trained in specialized forms of therapy.  Examples include art therapist, music therapist.

What Is a Dissociative Disorder?

Copyright 2010 Sidran Traumatic Stress Institute

Introduction
Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID) (known in the past as Multiple Personality Disorder-MPD) and other Dissociative Disorders are now understood to be fairly common effects of severe trauma in early childhood. The most common cause is extreme, repeated physical, sexual, and/or emotional abuse.

There is a great deal of overlap of symptoms and experiences among the several Dissociative Disorders, including DID. Some people who may not qualify for a specific diagnosis may, nevertheless, have problems with dissociation. For ease of reading, we use “Dissociative Disorders” as a general term for all of the diagnoses. Individuals should seek help from qualified mental health providers to answer questions about their own particular circumstances and diagnoses.

Q: Is DID the same as MPD?
n 1994, the American Psychiatric Association’s manual that classifies and describes all psychiatric diagnoses changed the name from Multiple Personality Disorder (MPD) to Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID). They felt this better reflected the current professional understanding of the disorder, based on significant recent research.

Q: What Does Trauma Have to Do with DID?
Posttraumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) is a trauma-related mental illness affecting 8% of Americans. PTSD is closely related to Dissociative Disorders. In fact, most people with a Dissociative Disorder also have PTSD. The cost of trauma disorders is extremely high to individuals, families, and society. Recent research suggests that people with trauma disorders may attempt suicide more often than people who have major depression. Research also shows that people with trauma disorders have more serious medical illnesses, substance use, and self-harming behaviors.

Q: What Is Dissociation?
Dissociation is a disconnection between a person’s thoughts, memories, feelings, actions, or sense of who he or she is. This is a normal process that everyone has experienced. Examples of mild, common dissociation include daydreaming, highway hypnosis, or “getting lost” in a book or movie, all of which involve “losing touch” with awareness of one’s immediate surroundings.

Q: When Is Dissociation Helpful?
During a traumatic experience such as an accident, disaster, or crime victimization, dissociation can help a person tolerate what might otherwise be too difficult to bear. In situations like these, a person may dissociate the memory of the place, circumstances, or feelings about of the overwhelming event, mentally escaping from the fear, pain, and horror. This may make it difficult to later remember the details of the experience, as reported by many disaster and accident survivors.

Q: What is a Dissociative Disorder?
Tragically, ongoing traumatic conditions such as abuse, community violence, war, or painful medical procedures are not one-time events.   For people repeatedly exposed to these experiences, especially in childhood, dissociation is an extremely effective coping “skill.” However, it can become a double-edged sword. It can protect them from awareness of the pain in the short-run, but a person who dissociates often may find in the long-run his or her sense of personal history and identity is affected. For some people, dissociation is so frequent it results in serious pathology, relationship difficulties, and inability to function, especially when under stress.

Q: Who Gets Dissociative Disorders?
As many as 99% of people who develop Dissociative Disorders have documented histories of repetitive, overwhelming, and often life-threatening trauma at a sensitive developmental stage of childhood (usually before the age of nine). They may also have inherited a biological predisposition for dissociation. In our culture, the most frequent cause of Dissociative Disorders is extreme physical, emotional, and sexual abuse in childhood. Survivors of other kinds of childhood trauma (such as natural disasters, invasive medical procedures, war, kidnapping, and torture) have also reacted by developing Dissociative Disorders.

Q: Is DID a Major Mental Health Problem?
Current research shows that DID may affect 1% of the general population and as many as 5-20% of people in psychiatric hospitals. The rates are even higher among sexual-abuse survivors and addicts. These statistics put Dissociative Disorders in the same category as schizophrenia, depression, and anxiety, as one of the four major mental health problems today.

Q: Does DID Affect Both Women and Men?
Most current literature shows that Dissociative Disorders are recognized primarily among women. The latest research, however, indicates that the disorders may be equally prevalent (but less frequently diagnosed) among men. Men with Dissociative Disorders are most likely to be in treatment for other mental illnesses or drug and alcohol abuse, or they may be incarcerated.

Q: How Does a Dissociative Disorder Develop?
When faced with an overwhelming situation from which there is no physical escape, a child may learn to “go away” in his or her head. Children typically use this ability as a defense against physical and emotional pain, or fear of that pain. By dissociating, thoughts, feelings, memories, and perceptions of the trauma can be separated off in the mind.  This allows the child to function normally. This often happens when no parent or trusted adult is available to stop the hurt, soothe, and care for the child at the time of traumatic crisis. The parent/caregiver may be the source of the trauma, may neglect the child’s needs, may be a co-victim, or may be unaware of the situation.

Q: How Do Dissociative Disorders Help People Survive?
Dissociative Disorders are often called a self-protection or survival technique because they allow individuals to endure “hopeless” circumstances and preserve some healthy functioning. For a child who has been repeatedly physically and sexually assaulted, however, dissociation becomes a reinforced and conditioned defense.

Q: If It’s a Survival Technique, What’s the Down Side?
Because it is so effective, children who are very practiced at dissociating may automatically use it whenever they feel threatened–even if the anxiety-producing situation is not extreme or abusive. Even after the traumatic circumstances are long past, the left-over pattern of defensive dissociation sometimes remains into adulthood. Habitual defensive dissociation may lead to serious dysfunction in school, work, social, and daily activities.

Q: How Do the Identities of DID Develop?
Until about the age of eight or nine years, children are developmentally primed for fantasy play, such as when they create and interact with imaginary “friends.” When under extreme stress, young children may call on this special ability to develop a “character” or “role” into which they can escape when feeling threatened. One therapist described this as nothing more than a little girl imagining herself on a swing in the sunshine instead of at the hands of her abuser. Repeated dissociation can result in a series of separate entities, or mental states, which may eventually take on identities of their own. These entities can become the internal “personality states” of DID. Changing between these states of consciousness is often described as “switching.”

Q: Do People Actually Have “Multiple Personalities”?
Yes, and no. One of the reasons for the decision to change the disorder’s name from MPD to DID is that “multiple personalities” is a misleading term. A person with DID feels as if she has within her two or more entities, each with its own way of thinking and remembering about herself and her life. These entities previously were often called “personalities,” even though the term did not accurately reflect the common definition of the word. Other terms often used by therapists and survivors to describe these entities are: “alternate personalities,” “alters,” “parts,” “states of consciousness,” “ego states,” and “identities.” It is important to keep in mind that although these alternate states may feel or appear to be very different, they are all manifestations of a single, whole person.

Q: Is it Obvious when a Person Switches Personalities?
Unlike popular portrayals of dissociation in books and movies, most people with Dissociative Disorders work hard to hide their dissociation. They can often function so well, especially under controlled circumstances, that family members, coworkers, neighbors, and others with whom they interact daily may not know that they are chronically dissociative.  People with Dissociative Disorders can hold highly responsible jobs, contributing to society in a variety of professions, the arts, and public service.

Q:  What Are the Symptoms of a Dissociative Disorder?
People with Dissociative Disorders may experience any of the following: depression, mood swings, suicidal thoughts or attempts, sleep disorders (insomnia, night terrors, and sleep walking), panic attacks and phobias (flashbacks, reactions to reminders of the trauma), alcohol and drug abuse, compulsions and rituals, psychotic-like symptoms, and eating disorders. In addition, individuals can experience headaches, amnesias, time loss, trances, and “out-of-body experiences.” Some people with Dissociative Disorders have a tendency toward self-persecution, self-sabotage, and even violence (both self-inflicted and outwardly directed).

Q: Why Are Dissociative Disorders Often Misdiagnosed?
Dissociative Disorders survivors often spend years living with the wrong diagnosis. They change from therapist to therapist and from medication to medication, getting treatment for symptoms but making little or no actual progress. Research shows that people with Dissociative Disorders spend an average of seven years in the mental health system before getting the correct diagnosis. This is common because the symptoms that drive a person with a Dissociative Disorder to treatment are very similar to those of many other psychiatric diagnoses.

Q: What Are Some Common Misdiagnoses?
Common misdiagnoses include attention deficit disorder (especially among children), because of difficulties in concentration and memory; bipolar disorder, because “switching” can look like rapid-cycling mood swings; schizophrenia or psychoses, because flashbacks can cause auditory and visual hallucinations; and addictions, because alcohol and drugs are frequently used to self medicate or to numb the psychic pain.

Q: What Other Mental Health Problems Are People with DID Likely to Have?
In addition, people with Dissociative Disorders can have other diagnosable mental health problems at the same time. Typically these include depression, post traumatic stress disorder, panic attacks, obsessive compulsive symptoms, phobias, and self-harming behavior such as cutting, eating disorders, and high-risk sexual behaviors. Although they may get expert treatment for the more common secondary issue, if the dissociative disorder is not addressed, recovery is generally short lived.

Q: Where Can I Get More Information?
Sidran Institute. At Sidran, we help people understand, recover from, and treat dissociative and traumatic stress conditions. We are a national nonprofit organization and one of the nation’s leading providers of traumatic stress education, publications, and resources. Sidran is dedicated to helping people with traumatic stress conditions, providing education and training on treating and managing traumatic stress, and informing the public on issues related to traumatic stress. Sidran Institute Press, our publishing division, is a leading publisher of books about trauma and dissociation.

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Anonymous asked: Is just autistic ppl who has lack of eye contact?

Hello anon,

To keep this one short, no. Having a hard time making eye contact is not an automatic qualifier for autism. A lot of times, people struggle with eye contact because they have social anxiety or are just plain nervous.

Here is some info on autism:

Autism

Also, here are some resources on how to deal with anxiety/self esteem:

Body Positivity & self esteem

-Scott

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Anonymous asked: I have been feeling like I am in a good place right now and it honestly scares me. I don't feel like it's the full picture and I'm just inflating it till I can't see anything bad. It's enigmatic to tell where I am right now or what my head is thinking. I don't know. I feel like being able to function in the world maybe a bad thing, because I'm completely letting go of a big part of myself. Or maybe it's going through a metamorphosis to the next stage. I don't know which is worse.

Hey anon,

I am glad that you feel that you are in a good place in your life. I also want you to know that I have an idea of how you are feeling. It is weird to let go of that negativity that was in your life. It was such a big part of you in that it influenced almost every decision you made. At least that is the way it was for me. When the day finally came that I could wake up and be excited about what the day may hold, I was terrified. I never thought that things could get better.

The way I got over this feeling is by just letting go and trusting that I was finally in a good place. I rationalized that it was better to trust this feeling of “being better” then it was just to remain stagnant and afraid.

I know I kind of rambled, but if there is one thing I want to tell you, it is please do not be afraid to leave the negative behind to pursue the good that is on the horizon in your life.

I hope I answered your question the way you were hoping.

As always, do not hesitate to come to us with anymore questions you may have. We are more than happy to help you in any way we can.

-Scott