We’re not much different you and I. We both attend class, go on nights out, and use the loo. It’s the difficulty at which we do those things that truly sets us apart. The difficulties I will discuss in this post apply to all kinds of transfolk: closeted or non-closeted, anywhere on the spectrum, on hormones or not. My perspective as a trans person is extremely limited and this article would be incomplete without additional input. Luckily, the UoNSU LGBT+ Network has a sub-group specifically for the ‘T’. I’ve met some incredible people as a part of this group, some of whom who have offered their unique input to this article.
It may seem odd at first; thinking about one’s gender every single day. The stress and anxiety that comes from being misgendered is incomparable to any feeling you may have had before. This feeling is exceptionally noticeable when it’s done by a lecturer. To change your name with the university, you need to do so legally first. So, whilst current provisions allow you to indicate your gender via the ‘title’ option, it is still lacking when not allowing a preferred name. I spoke with a non-binary student about their experience, they had this to say about what it feels like with the current University provisions,
“I was incredibly self-conscious about uploading things to Moodle, emailing people, and seeing the registers as they went around because they all had my old name on. Even after I had my name changed, the registers were slow to update as usual - just as they can be very slow to update… While I can’t fault the individual people I’ve spoken to, the system as a whole has been lagging behind quite significantly, and that, I think, is the source of my self-consciousness - I have to be aware of everything that I do, where I choose to pee, how long my days are so I can avoid needing to go to the bathroom and wearing a binder for too long, which version of my name is on the register when I sign it, whether I choose to speak up, etc.”
Personally, I have experienced the bathroom issue. Planning my days around where I will be and ensuring that I walk past Portland at some point. I’m not fully out yet, but I have started hormones. I have no intention in using the female toilets yet, but as days roll on, the male toilets become more and more foreign to me. This change is most likely due to how I have become to accept my identity and the changes I’ve experienced thanks to hormones. It’s people like me who gender neutral toilets make all the difference. I know that as I become more and more feminine, the less likely I’ll be able to use the male toilets and not having to worry about that is grand. Once again, the University’s policy fails trans* students. The Students’ Union has a policy to lobby for gender neutral toilets, but in the end it is up to the University if they want to include them in their buildings. Currently, the University has failed on this ground and this can be seen most evidently in the new Teaching and Learning building. The SU will continue to have to lobby to prevent this from happening again and to promote changes in current buildings.
Going on nights out are a key component for many students and their experience at Uni. It’s here where we see yet another difficulty for our trans* students. For the UK, and most other countries, before you can change the sex on your ID, you have to have ‘proved’ that you experience gender dysphoria(1). Proof can be travel documents, images, etc., over a two year time period. Having reassignment surgery is not a requirement but the likelihood of receiving a gender recognition certificate increases with it. This entire process takes years and is an extremely stressful time period, if one undergoes it at all. So, when a trans male student wants to go on a night out and the one thing letting them into the bar is the letter ‘F’, there’s clearly an issue. Time after time, students who don’t have the letter or image matching their gender identity on their ID ask whether or not a bouncer is going to question it or not. This is unwanted attention and not deserved in any fashion and prevents these students from fully enjoying their time at university.
It’d be unfair for me to finish this article without mentioning trans* students of colour (PoC). In the world, trans* PoC undergo some of the worst discrimination and harassment. And whilst we go to a University that celebrates diversity, these statistics still run true. In the UK, students who come from a BME background, are less likely to seek welfare services due to barriers based on race, religion, culture, and language(2). This means that these students will not be getting the support they crucially need at a time in their life that is exceptionally troubling. It may be simple to separate these students into groups and identify the issues they face individually, but the statistics don’t lie and these issues compound exponentially.
Coming to University can be an exciting time for any student. It means moving away from home, meeting new people, and learning new things; however, if the systems in place directly disadvantage these students because of who they are, how can we truly claim a welcoming environment? So, reach out to your trans* friends. Tell them you support them and listen. Listen to the issues they face and stand up for them and their rights.
(1) https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-40709420
(2) https://www.mentalhealth.org.uk/a-to-z/b/black-asian-and-minority-ethnic-bame-communities
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