Back when we were in a “normal” routine, our kids’ screen time was pretty limited during the week. We only permitted them to use their phones and computers for school-related tasks during the week.
On weekends, they could play (there’s a limit on the Nintendo Switch, mostly as an experiment) for as long as their phone batteries lasted (well, that was the idea, it becomes meaningless when their phones last all day 😜).
Our kids would go out to meet their friends at parks, or at their friends’ homes.
Since our kids were basically confined to our home, and couldn’t see their friends in person, we basically lifted the screen time limits. The way I think about it is that they tend to play games with their friends, so this is the new “go out and play with your friends” time.
I noticed that Clint Edwards shared a post about a similar issue recently, and I agree with him, here:
I don’t know if I’ve ever been happier about online gaming, something only a pandemic could make me say. My son’s pretty social, and being away from his friends has been really hard on him. I usually hate gaming and we normally have serious restrictions on screen time. But right now it is keeping him inside and giving him a social outlet, and that’s made this whole ordeal easier on everyone.
Let Them Watch Screens – No Idea What I’m Doing: A Daddy Blog
The challenge, now, is that I still want our kids to focus on what passes for their distance classes in the mornings. We expect them to stick to “normal” school days, finishing around the time they’d finish if they were at school.
I work from my usual space at our dining room, and they work in their bedrooms, so it’s difficult to keep a close eye on whether they’re actually focused on their studies.
Still, as Clint points out, a little extra screen time creeping in at the edges isn’t a calamity –
Listen y’all, we are going to get through this. I know it. But the last thing I think we should all be worried about is limiting screen time right now.
Let Them Watch Screens – No Idea What I’m Doing: A Daddy Blog
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