Dammit!
Think you have problems?
Just be grateful you don’t live in Haiti.
Dammit.org
Here are some of the legitimate charitable organizations:
Please be generous.
American Red Cross
Salvation Army Haiti Relief
Catholic Relief Services
Unicef
Save the Children
The Order of Malta
Google has setup an excellent reference page here
Doctors Without Borders
American Jewish World Service
Samaritan's Purse
World Vision
Hope for Haiti
Stand with Haiti (Partners in Health)
Fox News also has a great reference page here