Saturday morning coffee

handsome, hunk, man with long hairThis week’s post is for all of you who like men who look like they should grace the cover of a romance novel.

Saturday morning comics

gay cartoon, gay comic, James Asal Jr., Adam and Andy cartoonADAM & ANDY is set in the fictional New England town of Woodfield, CT. You can learn more about Adam and Andy and purchase a copy of “the definitive collection of Adam and Andy” by visiting, adamandandy.com.

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Are you a fan of Adam & Andy? You can now purchase “Adam & Andy The Definitive Collection”, which includes comics from 2015 – 2018, selected classics, character profiles and is available in paperback or hardcover. You can purchase a copy by visiting, adamandandy.com.

Furry Friday

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BosGuy brain teaser

riddle, exercise for your brainEach Friday morning I post a riddle to get you to think outside the box and exercise your brain. To mix things up, I’ve included a decidedly provocative riddle to see if you can come up with the correct answer. I’ll confirm answers later so don’t worry if you don’t see your comment posted right away.

This week’s brain teaser:  
What gets longer if pulled, fits snugly between breasts and works when jerked?

Like riddles? Check out past week’s brain teasers.

What to do this weekend

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Snowbound XII 2019 starts on Friday in Provincetown and runs through the weekend

Queer Inclusive Climbing Klub (QuICK) Pizza night and climbing club at Brooklyn Boulders in Somerville

2019 Oscar-nominated short films will be playing on Friday at 7PM at the ICA-Boaton

The Beyonce Experience fuses the sounds of Beyonce with stunning visuals under the Charles Hayden Planetarium dome every Friday and Saturday at 8:30PM through February

FASCINATION Friday is a monthly gear/ fetish/ kink night at Jacques the 1st and 4th Friday of the month in Boston

Houseboi is at Oberon this Friday with DJ Math3ca – creative dress is highly encouraged

FO-MO Fridays with DJ Susan Esthera is on Friday at Blend – come down and dance to your favorite 80s and 90s classic pop songs

Casual Fridays is a weekly dance party with no cover featuring DJ Begbick at the Alley Bar in DTX

XO Friday is the weekly dance party hosted by DJ Stevie Psyclone (no cover before 11PM) at Club Cafe every Friday

Midnite Movies: Aliens is showing at the Coolidge Corner Theater on Friday (doors open at 11:30PM) in Brookline

So Hot Saturdaes: Girl Groups bring your friends for a fun night out with great music at Blend (formerly Peggy’s) in Dorchester 

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Dont Ask Dont Tell: Queer Lovers Prom join in the fun on Saturday night at Great Scott in Allston starting at 10PM with DJ Colby Drasher and DJ Kerry Quirk who will be joined by a cast of diverse and talented performers

Video Night Tracks every Saturday night join VJ Ryan Grow at Cathedral Station starting at 9:30PM

The Donkey Show is the ultimate disco experience is a story inspired by A Midsummer Night’s Dream each Saturday at Club Oberon in Cambridge.

Grunt is a weekly dance party with no cover for burly men and their admirers, starting at 10PM at the Alley Bar in DTX

UNITE Saturdays is a weekly dance party at Club Cafe with DJ Susan Esthera (no cover before 11PM) in Boston

Drag Me To Brunch is hosted at Carrie Nation Restaurant Cocktail Club on Sunday – brunch starts at 12PM and the show starts around 2ish in Boston

Queer and Trans Figure Drawing starts at 2PM every 4th Sunday of the month at the Dorchester Art Project (click the link for more details)

sip presents SWEAT resident DJs Adam Fearing and Bren Den with Ex Voto for a night of Disco w/ resident DJ Brian Halligan is behind the bar on Sunday at Jacques starting at 6PM in Boston

Sunday Tea Dance never has a cover and always has great music from 70s 80s & 90s, starting at 6PM no cover every Sunday at Club Cafe in Boston

Gay Beer Club visits The Alley on Sunday at 6PM – all are welcome to join

Karaoke at the Alley is every Sunday starting at 8PM in Boston

Pajama Party is a weekly dance party hosted every Sunday starting at 10PM at Machine in Boston

Hot Mess Sundays at Candibar in the Theater District is every Sunday starting at 10PM in Boston

Send me information about your upcoming programs and events in my blog’s comment section or message me the details on Facebook.

All hail Madonna: GLAAD recipient of Advocate for Change

gay rights, gay allies, MadonnaI’ve always loved Madonna, but her appeal was in part because she was a lot more than just a pop singer. She was an anomaly; an outspoken, vulgar woman who thrived on the hypocrisy of the 80s and a champion the LGBTQ community far before it was trendy to wear a red ribbon at award ceremonies.

So I’m happy Madonna will be presented with the Advocate for Change Award at the 2019 GLAAD Media Awards in NYC this May.  The inaugural Advocate for Change Award was given to former President Bill Clinton in 2013. Madonna will become only the second person to receive the honor, which is given only to those who “changed the game for LGBTQ people around the world” through their work, and I couldn’t agree more with GLAAD for acknowledging her. 

Vintage gay

men of color, vintage men of color, black gay coupleThis week’s photo comes from the Facebook collection of vintage photos from David Torguella (a.k.a. Lady Torguella), that long-time reader Bob Lowe turned me on to. Thanks Bob!

I dedicate this weekly post, featuring vintage gay photographs, to the men and women who lived in a more critical time where being true to yourself and loving who you want wasn’t always an option and came at a great price. Do you have a photo you would like to share? Email me at bosguymail@gmail.com.

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