Imperfection

I wrote this song last fall. I know the pronunciation isn’t perfect. But that is what happens when you are trying to teach yourself nehiyawewin while living so far away from home — relying on iPhone apps, my Auntie’s Cree language children show and anything else you can get your ears on. But I wrote… Read More

positive July

I noticed that I was getting overly cynical — fixating on petty conflicts, gossip, and other negative practices or dynamics that don’t add much to my life or to the lives of those around me. So I decided to try ‘positive July’. This month I will consciously make an effort to give thanks for all… Read More

Love is inherently decolonising – some thoughts on Junot Diaz’ ‘decolonial love’

Some really powerful, really beautiful things are currently being written about decolonial love. And I hope people continue to write about decolonising sex, decolonising relationships, decolonising gender roles, decolonising how we are conditioned not to express emotional vulnerability (as a matter of survival in a traumatised, brutal world). But love itself never was, never can… Read More

tea

sitting over a cup of steaming tea, it’s impossible not to imagine all the cups of tea I’ve had in my lifetime. Cups of overly strong Red Rose tea mixed with a generous syrup of white sugar served in the deep green melamine cups my Grandma used to reserve for us grandkids. Tea mixed with… Read More