6 Signs That He Doesn’t Like You As Much As You Do In a budding relationship, women can get overwhelmed with their emotions that they cannot clearly see the signs that the guys are giving them. In this post, we’ll make it easier for you and share with you six signs that show that a guy doesn’t like you as much as you do. You will be able to see from a different perspective if the signs the guy is giving you is real or not, if he’s interested or not, or if you are simply creating an illusion because you want him to like you. This is called a confirmation bias where you believe a guy likes you and you see the signs that he likes you. Here, we’ll take away all those illusions and see whether or not a guy really does like you. Here’s the first one: When You Have to Google If He Likes You If you have to go to Google to know whether or not he likes you, then something is going on. That shows you already that you are not sure if he’s interested in you. It means that you are seeing something there that wasn’t there before. Most of the time, you catch signs that are just a bit too subtle and it gives you the feeling that something is not right. That’s one of the first signs because you are not getting the confirmation that you need. When He Doesn’t Call Back The second sign is when he doesn’t call back. It just shows that he doesn’t want to talk to you. When someone calls you and you see that on your phone, you would call them back or text them to ask what’s wrong or whatnot. But if you also notice that when you call him and he texts you instead, it may not be as bad as not getting a call at all but that’s something you have to notice as well. When You Feel That You’re Doing All the Work When you’re always the one calling and you’re preparing a list of things to talk about, that’s just wrong. If you feel like you’re putting in all the work and the effort, when you’re thinking of what to say next just to prevent an awkward silence, it means he’s not putting in the work. When a guy likes you, talking would be effortless. Talking would be something that you don’t have to think about. It’s just something that you just do. When you’re starting to struggle to have a conversation with a guy, then that means that the relationship is off. When He Gives You Short Responses When a guy likes you, he’s more than willing to give you what’s required. He won’t give you one-word answers. When someone is interested in you, they’d be happy to send you a long text telling you about what happened to their day. You can also notice the difference if before he used to text you long messages and then now that has decreased or he doesn’t text you as often as before, then something’s going on. There’s a problem there because there’s a break in the continuity of his pattern. When the Conversations are Not Effortless If you are starting to notice that you have to think about what to say next and that your conversation skills are not as good, then that simply means the guy is not that interested in you. During a conversation when you talk and he gives you responses that doesn’t give you the opportunity to elaborate more on what you were saying, then the interest is not there. The conversation has gone stale. There’s no spark in the conversations anymore. When He Doesn’t React to Your Non-Response This is one of the big signs that you have to be aware of. When you don’t respond to him the way you do normally and he doesn’t react to that, or when he doesn’t notice that you don’t respond to his texts, or when he doesn’t react to your non-response then that’s a problem. You can use tears to get a guy to react but if that doesn’t work as well, then he’s just not that into you anymore. If he doesn’t react to your non-response or to your show of emotions, then it’s time to let that guy go. Takeaway Hopefully these six signs will help all the women out there who are still wondering if the guy likes them or not. You have to have a clear perspective about these things or else you’ll continue to live in your illusion and you’ll end up prolonging your agony than just cutting it off and finding someone who can give you the time and attention that you deserve.

• published: 26 Apr 2017
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