Living with J. D. Salinger, Author of The Catcher in the Rye (2000)
Daphne Joyce Maynard (born
November 5,
1953) is an
American author known for writing with candor about her life, as well as for her works of fiction and hundreds of essays and newspaper columns, often about parenting and family. The
1998 publication of her memoir,
At Home in the
World, made her the object of intense criticism among some members of the literary world for having revealed the story of the relationship she had with author
J. D. Salinger when he was 53 and she was 18.
Maynard is the mother of actor
Wilson Bethel.
Maynard was born in
Durham, New Hampshire, the daughter of Fredelle (née Bruser), a journalist, writer, and teacher, and
Max Maynard, a painter and professor of
English.[1] Her father was born in
India, to English missionary parents, and later moved to
Canada; her mother was
Jewish (she was born in
Saskatchewan, to immigrants from
Russia).[2][
3][4] Maynard attended the
Oyster River School District and
Phillips Exeter Academy. She won early recognition for her writing from The
Scholastic Art and Writing Awards, winning student writing prizes in 1966,
1967,
1968,
1970, and
1971. While in her teens, she wrote regularly for
Seventeen magazine. She entered
Yale University in 1971 and sent a collection of her writings to the editors of
The New York Times Magazine. They asked her to write an article for them, which was published as "An
Eighteen Year Old
Looks Back on
Life" at the
Wayback Machine (archived
December 14,
2000) in the magazine's April 23,
1972 issue. The article prompted a letter from J. D. Salinger, then 53 years old, who complimented her writing and warned her of the dangers of publicity.
They exchanged 25 letters, and Maynard dropped out of
Yale the summer after her freshman year to live with
Salinger in
Cornish, New Hampshire.[5] Maynard spent ten months living in Salinger's
Cornish home, during which time she completed work on her first book,
Looking Back, a memoir that was published in
1973, in which she adhered to Salinger's request that she not mention his role in her life. Her relationship with Salinger ended abruptly just prior to the book's publication. According to Maynard's memoir, during a family vacation with her and with his two children from a previous marriage, Salinger mentioned that he didn't want any more children, and Maynard responded that she wanted some children of her own, at which
point Salinger immediately ended the relationship. Maynard said she was devastated and begged him to take her back. Maynard never returned to college. In 1973, she used the proceeds from her first book to purchase a house on a large piece of land in
Hillsborough, New Hampshire, where she lived alone for over two years. From 1973 until
1975, she contributed commentaries to a series called “
Spectrum”, broadcast on
CBS radio. The feature which also included conservative voices of
Phyllis Schlafly and
James J. Kilpatrick, and of liberals such as
Murray Kempton and
Nicholas von Hoffman. Maynard was not included when the feature was adopted for television in a debate format as the "
Point/
Counterpoint" feature of
60 Minutes.
Maynard gained widespread commercial acceptance in
1992 with the publication of her novel
To Die For which drew several elements from the real-life
Pamela Smart murder case. It was adapted into a
1995 film of the same name starring
Nicole Kidman,
Matt Dillon,
Joaquin Phoenix and
Casey Affleck and directed by
Gus Van Sant. In the late
1990s, Maynard became one of the first authors to communicate daily with her readership by making use of the
Internet and an online discussion forum, The
Domestic Affairs
Message Board (DAMB).
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