I didn't want kids until I got sick

When I became severely sick, I realised I wanted to have a child. Almost simultaneously, I realised I couldn't.

OPINION: Having a chronic illness is a one-sided existence, and having a child would allow me to focus my energy on someone else for a change.

I'm at peace with my moustache

Clem Bastow: "I've lasered it, waxed it, bleached it, encouraged it, and occasionally darkened it with mascara, ...

I've lasered it, waxed it and bleached it but, at 35, my natural resting state is a dark but fine moustache.

What it's like being a solo dad

Andrew Kerr and his daughter Zoe Kerr Le Grange live in Kilbernie, Wellington.

Three dads tell Britt Mann about the joys and challenges of raising their kids after their relationships ended.

Gloves spark racism claims

Miss South Africa Demi-Leigh Nel-Peters poses for a photo with a child at the soup kitchen in Johannesburg.

Miss South Africa wore white gloves while interacting with black children. Outrage ensued.

Fast fashion an 'empty sugar-rush'

H & M shopping bags are set to become more common in New Zealand.

OPINION: The H&M shopping experience is the ultimate sugar-rush - followed by a regret-filled let-down.

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Changing role of kitchen island

This kitchen, designed by Glen Johns in conjunction with Boon Goldsmith Bhaskar Brebner Team Architects, features a ...

The modern island needs to cater to more than one cook, and it also has an architectural role to play.

BOP houses wow judges gallery

Bay of Plenty awards recognise stunning houses, several by a single designer.

Waikato's winning homes gallery

Inside a historic Australian mansion

love & sex

'Vampire O-shot': hard to resist

Dr Catherine Stone from The Face Place is one of the country's first practitioners of P and O shots, which see plasma ...

People are injecting vials of blood into their genitals in a bid to improve their sex drive and performance.

Are date nights really necessary?

OPINION: Although date nights may seem contrived, they are crucial to relationship satisfaction.

The trend of marrying yourself or 'sologamy' may be taking off, but it's not as easy as you may think, writes Caren Lissner.

Why sologamy isn't for me

OPINION: The trend of marrying yourself or 'sologamy' may be taking off, but it's not as easy as you may think.

food & wine

Top five test meals

This here is what a spotted dick - that enigmatic staple of English cuisine - looks like.

Rugby watching is a hungry business - sustain yourself with spotted dick, toad in the hole or their Kiwi counterparts.

Slice of citrus heaven

Oranges never tasted so good. Whip up this pretty cake to impress family and friends

Tongue In Groove Chardonnay 2015 and Craggy Range Aroha Te Muna Pinot Noir 2015.

The wines, they are a changin’

When it comes to wine, quality is starting to be valued over quantity, says John Saker.

beauty

I'm at peace with my moustache

Clem Bastow: "I've lasered it, waxed it, bleached it, encouraged it, and occasionally darkened it with mascara, ...

I've lasered it, waxed it and bleached it but, at 35, my natural resting state is a dark but fine moustache.

The first beauty products we bought

Bonne Bell Lip Smackers were a major status symbol for the preteen set.

Miss South Africa Demi-Leigh Nel-Peters poses for a photo with a child at the soup kitchen in Johannesburg.

Gloves spark racism claims

Miss South Africa wore white gloves while interacting with black children. Outrage ensued.

fashion

Fast fashion an 'empty sugar-rush'

H & M shopping bags are set to become more common in New Zealand.

OPINION: The H&M shopping experience is the ultimate sugar-rush - followed by a regret-filled let-down.

Best & worst dressed celebs gallery

Zendaya pulls off a cape, Belle Hadid makes an epic fashion fail and Karen Gillan loses a battle against crushed velvet.

After speculation, H&M says it is opening a store at Queensgate.

H&M Queensgate big drawcard

The Swedish fashion giant H&M has confirmed it will open a new store in Lower Hutt's Queensgate Shopping Centre.

well & good

Mexican week in chemo ward

Goucho David and a mean hombre.

David Downs opts for a 'Mexic-ation' as he goes in for his seventh round of chemotherapy.

Kick your fizzy drink habit

Both regular and diet soft drinks come with health risks, so how do you kick the soda habit?

I won't be 'nice' about disability

Sheryl Sandberg on grief

life

I didn't want a kid until I got sick

When I became severely sick and bedridden, I realised I wanted to have a child. Almost simultaneously, I realised I couldn't.

OPINION: Having a chronic illness is a one-sided existence, and having a child would allow me to focus my energy on someone else for a change.

Dance troupe girls meet SBW

Teen dancers who were harrassed by fans "change their experience of rugby" by meeting ABs.

Opinion: A funny kind of news

TV magic when Martha meets Snoop

luxury

High-riding Merc hot rods

Mercedes-AMG GLC 63 S 4MATIC+ Coupe.

Mercedes-Benz reveals details of NZ's fastest SUVs that have biturbo V8s.

V8 Jaguar has big roar video

If you love the sound of a V8, British brand's most powerful road-going model to date will not disappoint.

A teaser image of the new BMW i8 roadster due to be released in 2018.

BMW teases i8 Roadster video

BMW signals virtually silent drop-top motoring is on the way.

weddings

Introducing Elicia and Daniel

Elicia and Daniel wanted their intimate wedding to be set in a beautiful nature scene.

They wanted their intimate ceremony to be set in beautiful scenery - what better place than Queenstown.

Ardern's surprise global dash video

Labour's Jacinda Ardern has taken a last-minute trip across the world to surprise her sister on her wedding.

I've learned from experience that the dreaded "singles table" is by far the most entertaining place to sit if you're ...

I prefer going to weddings alone

OPINION: I believe that attending a wedding solo is far superior to going with a date, even one to whom I'm married.

Video

Seal sunbathing in Te Puke

Lone seal on the loose but with the nearest waterway several kilometres away, how did it get there?

Parenting

What it's like being a solo dad

Andrew Kerr and his daughter Zoe Kerr Le Grange live in Kilbernie, Wellington.

Three dads tell Britt Mann about the joys and challenges of raising their kids after their relationships ended.

Better options than smacking

In wake of research showing many Kiwis still smack their kids, experts advise stressed parents to think twice.

Nelson, left, and Baden Marino-Hall intend to respond to each and every woman who has offered to help them in their ...

'Crazy' response to donor plea

Couple wanting Maori donor egg amazed by "gobsmacking" offers of help.

To celebrate Matilda the Musical coming to Auckland in August, tell us about an inspiring teacher and be in the draw to experience this incredible musical.

Sponsored content by Matilda the Musical

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Furry Friday: Sun lovers

Forget solar panels - simply clone Gussy and array his likenesses across the landscape to soak in every photon of ...

There may not be a lot of sunshine in winter. But if there is, a pet will find it.

Furry Friday: Blanket hog

The Force is strong in Trixie.

Pets adore warmth, and if given the chance they love to be buried in blankets.

Furry Friday: Heat seekers

The body language is coolish, but the temperatures are toasty for Archie and Gizmo.

Pets love a fire. Logs, coal, gas flame - it's a magic source of luxury.

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