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"content": "<p><strong>I.<\/strong> I’ve been thinking: What would my life look like if I were not afraid of death? Thinking too closely about not existing, not having a consciousness, sends me spiraling into a panic attack. Protestant Christians believe in an afterlife\u2014a heaven, a hell. I did, too, for a while. I was confident, fervent, about heaven. I was no longer afraid to die. Now I’m not so sure. Nothingness scares me, but so does an eternity spent somewhere else.<\/p>\n<p>A month ago, I shared a <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.longreads.com\/2015\/03\/22\/blueprints-buildings-four-stories-about-architecture\/\">reading\u00a0list<\/a> about architecture. My <a href=\"http:\/\/www.thestranger.com\/features\/feature\/2015\/03\/03\/21792773\/the-architect-who-wants-to-redesign-being-dead?src=longreads\">pick<\/a> from <em>The Stranger<\/em> was about Katrina Spade, an \u00a0archeologist from Seattle interested in environmentally friendly, community-centered death care: city centers dedicated to composting human beings and reuniting their bodies with nature. It’s called the Urban Death Project. A\u00a0few days ago, Spade debuted her <a href=\"https:\/\/www.kickstarter.com\/projects\/546469190\/the-urban-death-project-laying-our-loved-ones-to-r\">fundraising campaign<\/a>\u00a0to make the project a reality.<\/p>\n<p>I studied artist Iris Gottlieb’s drawings of plants and fungi and Spade’s architectural plans. I liked the idea that the composting hubs would be unique to each city\u2014much like libraries, which take on aspects of their communities while serving the same essential purpose worldwide, Spade explained.\u00a0Reading the details of Spade’s proposal, I felt genuinely moved, and, for the first time in a decade, peaceful. <\/p>\n<p> <\/p>\n<p><strong>II.<\/strong> On Saturday night, my partner and I went to Congressional Cemetery in southeast Washington, D.C. to attend <a href=\"http:\/\/www.atlasobscura.com\">Atlas Obscura’s<\/a> “Sinners, Scoundrels\u00a0and Scandals,” a night of storytelling by docents and experts. We went on\u00a0a tour\u00a0of the cemetery’s most notorious residents: a co-conspirator in Lincoln’s assassination, the richest madam in D.C., a beloved con artist and many others.<\/p>\n<p>Much as I enjoyed these stories, what struck me most was the cemetery’s beauty. The last graveyard I’d visited was in Centralia, Pennsylvania, the abandoned coal town that inspired the horror media franchise\u00a0<em>Silent Hill.<\/em> Congressional Cemetery was the opposite of Centralia’s silence and cold\u2014it was green, lush with cherry blossoms to rival the famous trees a few miles away. Our docent, Tim, explained that cemeteries used to serve the same purpose as public parks\u2014neighbors picnicked, strolled and played. Congressional seeks to bring back that spirit\u2014it hosts yoga, book clubs, tours, 5Ks and a dog-walking program. The docents urged us to come back and visit, without a trace of irony. They seemed to have a great respect for Congressional Cemetery’s history and purpose, but no fear.<\/p>\n<p> <\/p>\n<p><strong>III.<\/strong> Death is not easy. In spite of radical, green burial options and beautiful graveyards, it’s real and frustrating and tragic. <em>“Master Hayden Finn Boerum, 7-year-old son of Melissa J. Golden and Michael P. Boerum of Frederick, died Sunday.”<\/em> Hayden, his brother, and his mom, Melissa, are beloved in my community of theatre nerds. Hayden had been in the hospital for a long time by the time I met his family. His older brother, A., is kind and a little shy. His mom is strong and beautiful and quick to laugh.\u00a0<em>“Because of Hayden’s upbeat, positive and courageous attitude with his battle against Histiocytosis, Hayden’s Heroes, Inc., was created.”<\/em> I have a Hayden’s Heroes tank top in my drawer. <em>“He was known as ‘Nurse Hayden’ on the 4th floor of Children’s hospital. Although he was unable to eat and enjoy food, he found great pleasure in having his nurses print pictures of his favorite foods\u00a0\u2026\u00a0Hayden loved doing many things, and he greatly enjoyed playing with Legos and matchbox cars, trucks and trailers (anything with a hook), camping with his family and listening to his IPod\u00a0\u2026\u00a0Hayden will be greatly missed.”<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I lost it at the last sentence.<\/p>\n<p> <\/p>\n<p><strong>IV.<\/strong> In the lists I prepare for Longreads, I try to push myself to read and write about things I don’t always understand, but want to learn more about. I don’t know a lot about typography or architecture. Sometimes I’m learning about a new, controversial law. 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